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For me personally, I matured super fast from fifteen to now to the point where I feel more reasonable and mature than most adults I'm around, so it's difficult to find guys around my age who don't seem like children, and unlike many people my age, my desire for a relationship is for the actual steady intimacy of knowing and loving someone, not the excitement of going on dates.
Also opportunity. I live out of town, with reason to go in only twice a week, and the town is small. The only things to do is going to the bookstore (tiny), which despite what is portrayed in YA novels, is a barren hunting ground when it comes to finding men; the library, which is usually full of older people or kids, and no one talks anyway, and the gym, which is full of boney guys ego lifting, or gigantic dudes who are at least in their mid-thirties.
Those two things combined make it very difficult.0
Not just girls, but I think today's youth. Is choosing "fuck toy" over a real solid relationship.
One or two things go sour and their out to dump each other.
And another thing I noticed, they don't know how to compromise.
But I think all young people kinda go though that. Its part of becoming an adult.
So why did I just say all this junk?
I have no freaking clue why2
Maybe they are simply not pretty or enchanting.5
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i think when it comes to western men i think it's because they find me immature and i also have ocd. i'm also big atm, not productive enoufh, not charminh enough, not tesponsible enough, not sociable enough, not even intelligent enough and i find that fair enough because at the end of the day i also get to choose if i really wanna be with them or not. i'm just a girl just a human beinh that if you keep makinh me feel i am not good enough i would think will i be happy with this person if hypothetically i will end up with this person? maybe i'm not the one who should be with this person maybe it's better if he would end up with someone else. if hypothetically we end up together maybe it will just end up in a disaster. it hurts me very much but you know that's life. also i've been through so much in life and most of all i have Jesus i knoe i am tough ican handle anything0
I’ve met too many guys who only seem to wanna have sex and not commit or make an effort anymore for a relationship.0
Im too ugly, too fat or just my personality is warped because no one wants to date me...0
Either men don't ask me out, or they do, but on the first date I find out that they're alcoholic or they did drugs in the past or that they have a mental illness or a bad past, or they're the wrong personality type for me, and I sense that it would lead to nothing but a trauma bond.
Similar situation, here.