Are you a woman or know a woman who has been ALPHA WIDOWED?

[coachTanthony]

Defining Alpha Widow: A woman who has been abandoned by an Alpha male. No matter how great her new man is, she will perceive him as failing to meet the standard of the alpha she was previously associated with. Due to hypergamy, a woman cannot date backwards, once she gets say, a male 8 out of 10, she cannot date below a male 8 and be happy with him. If she does, she is just using said man for resources (BB) and doesn't really love him. Essentially, a damaged woman accustomed to a tier of man she can no longer attract.

Credit: Reddit. where all the beta males hang out.

Yes I am one or who knows one

Never heard of this gibberish

see poll ( Coach is stirring the pot )

[Red-Blaze]

Sounds like one of this made up BS
You never date down, to eho fits you there is no universal ranking, its for each there own

Alpha male is honesty a term I feel is taken out of its context and meaning
"NounEdit

alpha male (plural alpha males)(zoology, ethology) The dominant male in a group of animals.(by extension) A dominant, assertive, protective, oftentimes successful, leadership-type man or male. [from 1990s] quotations ▼synonyms, antonym ▲Synonyms: alpha, male alphaAntonym: omega male"Alpha male means his dominate, not that he looks good, not that he is good, he just has a pull to leadership
And if you ever seen a pack of dogs, its not too rare for the alpha, to be a chihuahua becouse his load and too dumb to understand his not suppose to be the Alpha, but dam respect from the big once, becouse that tiny thing has confidince

Alpha male can be a 2/10

And this saying makes no sense really
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Or maybe ai am just speaking out of my 🍑 who knows... I dont.. I am a chihuahua 😅

[coachTanthony]

"Alpha male is honesty a term I feel is taken out of its context and meaning"

There are many words and terms that have been elevated in our lexicon with different meanings. Just because the dictionary defines it one way doesn't mean society sees it the same.

[SaoirseS]

I look at Alpha male in the context of software: unstable, missing important features, filled with flaws, and not fit for the public.

[Red-Blaze]

Thing is in some level it means nothing
On this case I guess you meant the "high level man" that I answer on the very start its really about how well the two fit, and if it failed with one, you should never roll to a lower fit level as that is sure to fail even wrost

[Red-Blaze]

@SaoirseS I love that, going to surely update it to my brain next software update :)
I am a developer

[coachTanthony]

@SaoirseS Unfortunately women just can't stick with pen and paper. It's too boring.

[coachTanthony]

@Red-Blaze It's however you define it. You want to define it as high level man okay.

[SaoirseS]

“It’s however you want to define it.”
Precisely.

[Red-Blaze]

@coachTanthony but then how can I answer what you ask if we don't talk the same language?

[coachTanthony]

@Red-Blaze I think we are on the same page.

[Red-Blaze]

@HavicZero
Thanks for noticing I am happy
The rest honestly I did not understand at all to what your referring
like to clear it to this ignorant moron?

[Red-Blaze]

Thanks for MHO

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I don’t buy into those bs beliefs

[coachTanthony]

Ok lol

[Billboshaggens]

My mom married an Alpha Man, who didn't treat her right and started abusing me when I was 2 years old. He died and then she married a nice, considerate man who helped her cook and clean and is kind to everyone he meets. She's never been happier. Why don't you, instead of being hyper focused on the social hierarchy of what a man is, worry about how you treat other people, and let that reflect your character. Instead of being some false version of a self-possessed man who only cares about his own opinions.

[Gibbons44]

There are huge misconceptions about all that. There are good/genuinely nice people, and there are the jaded 'uber competitive' ones. Mostly has to do with IQ and not with gender - where we say 'women' for low IQ people since most small brained females are like that - good looking, in the 'sport and physical activity' sense, unable to meet remotely stringent intellectual standards, and told by their therapists or pimps to always aim far beyond their own abilities and qualities since there are many more brainy guys than girls (they are unrealistic buy bargaining on the lack of smart good looking females and being predators to desperate male loneliness - at least whilst young/until their narcissism, or narco-dealing, collapse, at which point they are those sorry sights around us).

The good generally don't mind nurturing, but in females that's the very old ones, and males who are such easily find a cat/rabbit type girlie to house and be good to (understanding she's more like a daughter than a wife)

[coachTanthony]

I don't think everyone is on Reddit in the red pill forums to say there's a misconception lol

[Gibbons44]

I never got involved with any pills lol. It's puzzling how to be a male virgin of my age, instead of being _the_ qualifier, gets disparaged - especially since as a white blue eyed high IQ and fit/very good looking male - I must be the 'big bad wolf' the pop culture for some reason is bent on chastising.

[D_Bone_Steak]

What is sad, is the new guy could be something good for her but she's going to remain hung up on some dude that fucked and slipped out of the house before she even woke up.

What is sadder... I think the people (women) that need to hear this shit the most might read this and not even understand it. They'll just torture a guy that doesn't realize he was in competition with some dude that banged her on a Thursday night 3 years ago and not realize what he was up against. They'll refuse to even believe this shit is real and just play it out and end up wondering where all the good guys have gone.

[SteveSmith1985]

This is indeed "gibberish." Also, this is a brand new (stupid-ass) term for me. Thank you for defining it.

All I have to say, is that some guys (guys who buy-in to bullshit like this) are overcomplicating their lives. The world doesn't work this way. None of these guys have a fucking clue about women. It's a bunch of misguided dudes... making up bullshit amongst THEMSELVES... which leads them to see women as fundamentally different from how they truly are.

A single guy who has never even HEARD of the term "alpha male" is a thousand times better-off than all the dudes who think they understand women and gender dynamics by buying-into this garbage.

You don't know what the hell happened between some girl and her "alpha" ex. The idea that you'll never measure up because you're "less alpha" is nothing more than self-defeating, feel-sorry-for-yourself... bullshit! This is not how women work. It's frustrating to see so many guys (especially young ones)... all re-affirming incorrect, misguided bullshit to one-another. This messed-up way of viewing the world (and women) seems to be endemic among men. I don't know what exactly happened... but this is a great example of the sort of made-up-garbage that guys too young-to-know-better seem to be adopting as "truth".

"Alpha widowed" is a useless category, describing a made-up phenomenon. People don't work like this. That's why... nobody ever bought into all this bullshit... until very recently.

Frustrating!!!

[HavicZero]

You got to love this horseshit because women are masters in the new win situation. She wants you to love her and pay for everything and give her orgasms and pay for all and resolve all of her mistakes but all of it has to be done the way that she demands and on her demanding timeline.

If you care about her and ask if she got home safe she'll call you controlling. If you don't do that she'll say you don't care. If you pay for the meals on a date she'll say you're controlling but if you split the bill she'll say you're cheap and leave. If you actually care about building a team she's going to say that you care too much. If you go with the flow she'll say you won't care at all. And straight up women always do this here's a great example women will say what they think other people want to hear rather than being honest here's a great example. Thank you for your service! But she'll only say it when there's a group of people around so that she can look like the good person. She'll never say it to you by yourself because she doesn't mean it and she never did.

Women are no longer worth the time and frankly they're all getting mad because nobody wants them anymore because everybody's figured this out. Why do you think you're such a huge uptick in old women dating young guys? Cuz the young guys know they can get some ass easily and the old women think that they're building a soulmate relationship. But those always end and it's never pretty for the woman and that's too bad because fuck her.

[Billboshaggens]

My mom married an Alpha Man, who didn't treat her right and started abusing me when I was 2 years old. He died and then she married a nice, considerate man who helped her cook and clean and is kind to everyone he meets. She's never been happier. Why don't you, instead of being hyper focused on the social hierarchy of what a man is, worry about how you treat other people. And let that reflect your character. Life isn't a fucking video game, douche bag.

[Billboshaggens]

Sorry about that last sentence. I might have misplaced my feelings on to you.

[coachTanthony]

LOL no worries. I just put the content out there for discussion doesn't mean I always believe it.

[Billboshaggens]

Cool. I'm not so sure this is the correct context for healthy conversation, but I respect the experiment.

[coachTanthony]

I'm about conversation... don't care if it's healthy lol

[FreyaRed]

If I ate a steak for 1200$/kg I can never eat a steak for 120$/kg again? This seems to be your logic.
Hypergamy seems to be sex neutral and it's rather wish think than an practical rule.

[coachTanthony]

Hypergamy doesn't apply to men.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Yea women are extremely materialistic they won’t go back to ramen noodles

when they had a Michelin star dish

but also dating is just as competitive as remaining relevant in the adult film industry

I heard a pornstar say in an interview “ They turn 18 everyday I’m glad I started when I did because these girls today do everything all of them do anal you can’t make it in the industry today if you don’t”

[Anonymous]

If she can't hold onto a man I would say she needs to start worrying less about the quality of man he is and start worrying more about why that is. And yes I do recognize she might have lost him because he wasn't a quality guy to begin with. But if that is the case she needs to work on her selection and vetting guys better.

[blueonblack22]

I could see young stupid girls behaving this way. But I don’t think it’s a permanent situation.

[NathanDavis]

how far can they go... that is impressive, lol

[Petrifythpatriarchy]

I swear every time I hear the word Alpha male I just think of those guy that have a big body and none of the brain cell to match said body. Men who subscribe to the 'Alpha' mentality are generally insecure, poorly socialised and misogynistic. They epitomise toxic masculinity, have an underdeveloped sense of empathy and are generally trying to mask 'shortcomings' in other areas - not always their penis length, lack of sexual ability or undeveloped pre-frontal cortex, but...

[coachTanthony]

No such thing as toxic masculinity.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I never heard of this.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I love the title. 😂

[KrakenAttackin]

There are tons of Alpha widowed females.

[Anonymous]

Kindergarten.