Singles on Valentine's: Do you believe you'll find your spouse/partner one day?

[DenizLikesTennis]

For those who don't, I wish you much blessing, prosperity and fortune. You are still a lovable person and worth dating! ✊🏽

Yes, I am certain that I will someday❤

No, it's so difficult☹💔

I live freely and never think about it🚶‍♂️🚶‍♀️

[Enaya]

It took me a long time to come to terms with this and admit it to myself that I am the "stunning" girl no one asks out. They think I am cold and intimidating because I am an introvert. So the chances are slim slim slim. I went online and got inundated but meetings strangers for dates didn't work out for me, it didn't feel like anything remotely romantic. Everything was fast and forced with those men. I work in a male dominated field and yet can't find a man. I asked out someone who was showing interest in me a lot and he got spooked. So yes, I am probably going to be alone but that's fine. I would have liked to have a great romance though.

[menina]

Yes, I truly believe I will. I just need to move to a decent country.

[Keishio]

What's wrong with your country?

[menina]

@Keishio I don't live in my country. I just know that I won't find love in the country where I live.

[Keishio]

Why's that?

[menina]

@Keishio Because I'm black, I tend to be attracted to white men and I live in a country where interracial relationships are very rare.

[Keishio]

I get that. Can make things a bit tough I guess but I'll say this as a white guy that finds black women attractive, I think a lot of white guys feel similarly but expect black women to not find us attractive which might put a lot of guys off trying

[menina]

@Keishio Yes, it definitely makes things harder. You might be right, I've never thought about that. But yes, it makes sense.

[Paul09]

I'm 41, never found the one. Not sure I ever will. The older you get, the harder it is to find someone. My friend tried setting me up with someone few days ago, but I'm not physically attracted to her. I feel bad, and at the same time I have my taste. It's like those who are ever interested, I'm not. And if I'm interested, they are not. Vicious circle.. Just my lifestyle makes it harder to find someone too.

[DenizLikesTennis]

That is insane. How do you cope with the feeling?

[cryscrys1]

Have you ever tried adapting to life? Meaning things don’t come as you order them.. sometimes you have to sacrifice your tastes buds for sake of having a family someone to look after you when are feeling sad having talks etc and maybe have a kid. Or nah

[Paul09]

You just enjoy all the other things in life

[Paul09]

@cryscrys1 Yes, I've adapted to being single and free. I just have so many other things I enjoy and am grateful for in my life. I don't want kids.

[NewsReader]

In the 21st century, single life is the best life. Plus, most girls in the United States are not worth dealing with these days. They are a scam. If I could go back 80 years or so, then it would be great.

[CubsterShura]

Maybe I will, maybe I won't. We just continue to live out lives and cannot make our happiness dependent on a variable that is not guaranteed.

[DenizLikesTennis]

Thats a smart answer, really

[Anonymous]

I don't believe in it. I know it can happen, that I will meet someone I connect with on such a level AND that it evolves into a relationship (chances are just low since this is not something that ever came natural to me :D ).

I have my ups and downs about being single. But these days it is nothing I seek or really care about. I have luckily so much more in my life to focus on and enjoy :)

[cryscrys1]

Finding the one isn’t suppose to be like UberEats but I guess that’s a very western qs
Have you thought about vouching asking friend family. Finding a partner is like your focus is shifted into that until you find someone.
If you relay on your dopamine and whatever hormones you feel you won’t find yourself let alone a partner.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I think I will, the time will come on its own.

[Heolurt]

Nope, I gave up trying a long time ago, everyone kept telling me how ugly I am and I was never able to get a date and only ever got rejected so, why try. No female could ever like my face and they are getting even pickier and I'm ok with that.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

I have a better chance of getting hit by lightning on a submarine.

[es20490446e]

Oh yeah, women love me actually.

It just happens I don't really know that much people. I don't know anyone who I could ask out.

[chicosuave]

Not in this country. I probably will in the Eastern world. I'll be a passport bro

[red324]

Girls always seem to disappear on me around valentines day. I think whoever else they're talking to swoops them up or something.

[XXblack88]

while I do, think it's possible I'm not goanna be disappointed if it never happens.

[magiusX26]

nope. dont care to. dont want to. not worthnthe hassle.

[Pacquet]

It's difficult but I think if you stop trying it won't happen.

[Guanfei]

Nah, I think the game is over for me. I wanted to, but I'm not the prince charming ladies want, so, I guess this is it.

[SpokenTruth]

I have put all that stuff behind me I'm not looking to find anyone anymore.

[Lucy68]

Nope, guys are repulsed by me

[DenizLikesTennis]

Wow that sucks. Don't give your hopes up and not dwell on it... I know how terrible it must feel. You have like over 10 years ahead of you. Until then your mindset can change and grow as an individual, pursue your goals, hobbies and interests... what else could you do. So am I.

[Jmmmfi4]

I have absolutely no hope of finding someone

[Anonymous]

I don't believe in that.
I believe it can happen for other people but for me it seems like that is from a movie.
It won't happen to me haha.

[Anonymous]

it seems that no body want relationship anymore. It's more of fun and keep the distance. whatever.. earth is full anyway.

[Luopio27]

No. I have given up on them.

[AdithyaR]

I basically gave up on that quite a while ago.