How can a person feel love?

[Anonymous]

I've experienced a lot of sadness, frustration, abuse, an anger from my childhood days to being a teenager because of my parent's methods of parenting, which is the authoritarian parenting style. I'm single right now and living with my parents, but when I start to live on my own and start dating, I don't think I'll experience the feeling of love. All feel is anger and sadness. How can I feel the love of my lover with what I went through as a child?

[Guy13]

All that negative attitudes snd experience can flip upside down into love with the right person

[KrakenAttackin]

I don't think most men ever really feel live in the way you are describing. Men get love for what we can provide and do for others. Men are "loved" very conditionally and that love can evaporate overnight (literally).

Not to be a down but the "unconditional" love women get is totally out of reach for 95% of men, even from their mothers.