So me and think guy from work have hit it off a few times at work parties, and we’ve spoken on and off, we went for a date and he came back to mine and we slept together. He said “he doesn’t want to jump into anything serious but never say never” ? He’s a chill guy and I don’t want to take things so fast and scare him off, so I said I’m not just up for sex, I’d like to do some fun things and dates and get to know eachother, he really agreed and suggested some things. I texted him today saying I’ll have a look at some things to do, but I don’t know if that was too eager? I like him and we have such great chemistry and get on so well… just don’t want to put him off by being too much :/ I’d also like to attract him to commit, although I know that if he really isn’t looking for something serious then this isn’t possible and I respect that
I slept with a guy I like that I work with… have I ruined it?
