I slept with a guy I like that I work with… have I ruined it?

[Anonymous]

So me and think guy from work have hit it off a few times at work parties, and we’ve spoken on and off, we went for a date and he came back to mine and we slept together. He said “he doesn’t want to jump into anything serious but never say never” ? He’s a chill guy and I don’t want to take things so fast and scare him off, so I said I’m not just up for sex, I’d like to do some fun things and dates and get to know eachother, he really agreed and suggested some things. I texted him today saying I’ll have a look at some things to do, but I don’t know if that was too eager? I like him and we have such great chemistry and get on so well… just don’t want to put him off by being too much :/ I’d also like to attract him to commit, although I know that if he really isn’t looking for something serious then this isn’t possible and I respect that

[Guy13]

Too pushy as this girl definitely wants an immediate relationship. MIXED signals means distance from guy…running other way. Can’t deal with indecisive drama.

[Anemone978]

Never fuck a guy before commitment if you want a relationship.. because now you are gonna be walking on eggshells trying not to scare him off... but don't be too eager just act like you were before the hookup..

[TheFlak38]

translation: "I want to get free attention from guys and give nothing in return. My vagina is the only valuable thing about me but I won't give that either. That one time was a mistake"

[Anonymous]

He's probably gonna treat it as a "hit it and quit it". Not likely to turn into boyfriend/girlfriend.

[In_Trance]

yeah