So I’m in this phase in my life where I’m tired of being a loser. In the past 3-4 weeks I’ve deleted all my dating apps and started going to the gym consistently again. My plan is to lose 20-25lbs then start dating again. I’m not completely unhappy with the way I look but I’m not fully happy with the way I look. I want to become the best version of myself.
So my question is, is it healthy to stop dating completely for the foreseeable future? I’m tempted to redownload my apps but I feel like it’ll end up being a distraction and I’ll drop my fitness goals if I end up dating someone. Should I just focus on myself for the mean time or should I try to balance out both?
Has anyone been in this position before? If so how did it work out for you?
So my question is, is it healthy to stop dating completely for the foreseeable future? I’m tempted to redownload my apps but I feel like it’ll end up being a distraction and I’ll drop my fitness goals if I end up dating someone. Should I just focus on myself for the mean time or should I try to balance out both?
Has anyone been in this position before? If so how did it work out for you?
