Why you really "can't find someone", agree?

[Anonymous]

I was thinking, why do some people say they can't find anyone?
Then I realized they aren't isolated and they have no trouble finding others or being found.
The problem is you don't accept many people. Why is that?
Well, I always seem to see girls say, "Well he has to earn at least that" or he has to have went to school or he can't be a religious person or he can't play video games, he can't be a virgin, etc.
Why don't we just earn enough money to where we don't have to rely on someone else to bring in X amount of money? That would allow you to find a mate much more easily. What's so bad about video games? You're going to exclude all guys that play them? They are all the same you think? The right guy is in front of you all the time. You're looking for a deal NOT love.

For men I think we are less superficial in general but I think we are more superficial when it comes to looks. All we really need is an average looking girl. I think being superficial about looks is reasonable because if you don't find them attractive, it is really hard to make it work.
However, we don't need our girl to be an 8+. That is just being superficial.

If we stop being superficial about all these things... It's suddenly A LOT easier to find someone!


It suddenly becomes simply about Love and Character as it relates to love.

[Guy13]

People do not accept others because they are insecure and have to always blame others for their own situationship. I am so tired of spineless and/or no backbone men who can't get around one hurdle the girl puts in front you you. Who is going to marry that whether 1.4 or 4004.00 a year.

[BrightBubblyKat]

Sometimes the woman is trying to back off from you though. Or trying to be a friend and I think guys in general can misread those signals.

[BrightBubblyKat]

But spineless is annoying yes. We don’t take those guys seriously.

[rachel776]

[KathrynTaylor]

You have a good point there.