I have been talking to a guy I knew from high school, we knew of each other but didn't talk until we ran into each other at the bar. We talked and exchanged numbers.
He messaged me and was constantly talking on the phone and over text for days. He told me he was interested in me before in high school but never did anything about it, and would always say how he wishes he said something to me earlier, we decided to meet up and go out for dinner one night last week, he made a couple advancements to saying he wanted to see how far this goes as he is looking for more of a relationship. We made plans to go out on the weekend. We are still talking a week later but it is not the same as it was a week ago. He is leaving me on delivered for 2-5 hours even though he is active and then makes up something up saying he is busy or he is sick so he isn't on his phone much. However when he does reply he does try and make conversation and we have talked about the weekend and seeing each other.
I know I cannot go and ask him straight out what his intentions are but I am not the type to play games, if your interested, your interested and if your not then i am moving on. My time is precious to me and don't like to waste it. However, I am not sure if it's disinterest or he is giving some space or trying to get me to chase him. I do like him however I am starting to get annoyed and would rather be open and not play games or waste time and I don't know how to get that across.
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Well yeah, if you are not going to confront the issue head on then there is no need to give off frustrated and angry vibes. Like you say, move on. See him then go the other way. Sounds like he likes your attention and that’s it 🤷🏻♂️
Why can't you just ask him?