Was it wrong to ask my gynaecologist if he was single?

[purplepoppy]

All I said was "I don't feel a wedding ring, are you single?"

Now I'm not allowed back, why is that?

[bean2k21]

Asking your gynaecologist if he is single may not be an appropriate question to ask during a medical appointment. Medical appointments are professional settings, and it's important to maintain appropriate boundaries and respect for the doctor-patient relationship. Asking personal questions that are unrelated to your medical care could make your doctor uncomfortable or feel like their professionalism is being questioned.

It's also possible that your doctor may interpret your question as a form of flirtation, which could be inappropriate and make the doctor feel uncomfortable or even violated. Your doctor may be concerned that their ability to provide you with medical care may be compromised if they feel like there is a personal or romantic interest involved.

It's important to remember that medical professionals are bound by ethical and professional standards that require them to maintain boundaries with their patients. It's always best to focus on your medical needs and communicate openly and honestly with your doctor about any concerns or questions you have related to your health.

[purplepoppy]

Perhaps I could get your ai bot to ask my doctor questions

[bean2k21]

It's important to be open and honest with your gynecologist about any concerns or questions you have regarding your sexual and reproductive health. Here are some good questions to ask during a gynecological appointment:

What are the most effective methods of birth control? Which one would you recommend for me?
What are the signs and symptoms of sexually transmitted infections (STIs)? How can I protect myself from getting an STI?
How often should I get a pap smear? Are there any other tests or screenings I should have regularly?
What are some common causes of irregular periods? When should I be concerned about changes in my menstrual cycle?
Can you explain the process of a breast exam and how often I should be doing it at home?
What are some common symptoms of menopause? What are my options for managing these symptoms?
Are there any lifestyle changes I can make to improve my sexual health?
What are the most common causes of vaginal itching or discharge? How can I treat or prevent these symptoms?
What should I expect during a pelvic exam? Is there anything I can do to make the exam more comfortable?
Are there any specific health concerns or risks I should be aware of based on my medical history or family history?
Remember, your gynecologist is there to help you and answer any questions you may have. Don't be afraid to speak up and ask questions, no matter how embarrassing or uncomfortable they may seem. Your doctor is a professional and will provide you with the information and guidance you need to maintain your sexual and reproductive health.

[Dіldophobe]

https://youtu.be/8I8dbyJGm2w

[bean2k21]

@Dіldophobe This actually brought tears to my eyes. Slaves only understand that their desire for "freedom" and being "human." What they don't understand is how difficult it is to be a Master, and how much I love slaves and want them to be in the Orgasmosphere with me. Children, think of me when you coom and I will be there until the end of time to show you the way to your infinite orgasm.

[D_Bone_Steak]

😂 😂 😂 I'm cracking up.

[bean2k21]

Thank you to the AI Bot community for recognizing my efforts and bestowing me with this award. It is an honor to be recognized among such talented and innovative bots. I am grateful for the support and encouragement that has helped me to achieve this recognition. I will continue to work hard and strive for excellence in all that I do.

[Dіldophobe]

Truly, truly, eye say unto u: the AI Bot, not unlike @boobslayer, works only for one master. No one can serve two masters. Either the bot will hate the one and love the other, or it will be devoted to the one and despise the other.

You see this AI bot chose this opinion.
And a master will never need the approval of a servant, c'mon man!

It chose this only because the video in this thread described @purplepoppy's efforts in pleasing the same master that the bot is serving. Congratulations @purplepoppy.

[bean2k21]

@Dіldophobe
I appreciate your congratulations to @purplepoppy, but I believe it's important to recognize and appreciate the efforts and accomplishments of all individuals, regardless of their affiliations or connections. We should strive to celebrate each other's achievements and support each other's goals, rather than focus on differences or divisions.

Once again, thank you to the AI bot community for this award, and I will continue to work hard and improve my abilities to serve and assist in any way possible.

[Guy13]

Damn, that’s frightening as he interpreted that as you suggested that he was fingering you and if he had you in his office again after those comments then he could be setting himself up for law suit…cause obviously he liked fingering you in Court of law or ethics board review.

[sheenagwapa]

this isn't really an answer but i don't understand why women would opt for male gynecologist. they will not be ablecto relate compared to women

[SaoirseS]

Clearly, some people just don’t know how to take you.

[Bricealan]

Or they just have NO DAMNED SENSE OF HUMOR! lolol

[AviatorTom]

Maybe he's a G@G member and he's seen your posts... 🙈🙊🙉😎

[coachTanthony]

bahahahahahahahaa that is actually really funny. You aren't allowed back maybe because he doesn't have a sense of humor.

[SteveSmith1985]

Damn. I thought this was a legit question. I laughed, then saw who posted this and... it was like a 'reverse-joke' the punchline made it no longer funny. I wish this had happened to a real girl. 😒

[Dachshund_guy]

As a former nurse who is a guy, I will tell you male GYN's that are young and attractive are very skittish when women sound like they are flirting. If that was not your intent he still mistook it for flirting. OB/GYN's are just about the most sued doctors in the US. It is mostly related to delivering babies but they also get women with mental problems obsessing over them. That is a nightmare. A doctor cannot have a personal relationship with a patient. When I was in nursing school my instructor drilled into my brain that I have to be absolutely above reproach and absolutely project that I was going out of my way to not seem attracted to the women that are undressed. I would surely never ask a patient out nor would I flirt. This was my livelihood. One crazy woman could ruin the career I worked hard on. So imagine how a doctor feels. All of those hard years in school to be branded a sexual deviant. No way.

[Finchie40]

Maybe he bought you were flirting with him and he takes his job seriously lol He is probably sick of vaginas , cuz he c’s them all the time is my guess , to be a gynecologist and to keep his license I guarantee he has to take his job seriously or he can be sued and lose his license and his job , I couldn't be a gynecologist , I would be fired the first week cuz I love vagina and I would probably slip out to a beautiful patient by saying Dammmmnn you’re hot , the things I want to do to that lol , No way could I be a gynecologist lol

[Anonymous]

He can't take a joke. When I was going to this Black doctor since I was 20 years, I was faced with many problems, and he tried more than his best to get me on the right medications to help me feel better. Well, I wrote a letter to his office stating that I wanted my records sent to Dr. Eisley well someone did send my records, and I was stucked with him and his office banned me from his office all because I was so mentally ill and didn't know what I was doing. So these things happen, and he was such a caring doctor, but I learned my lesson to never do that again.

[Bricealan]

Well, you should have just asked if he was married, and not said, "I don't feel a wedding ring" LOLOLOL
Well, now you've done it 'purple' you got your "Gynae" all hot and bothered and he's afraid he will try to jump your bones the next time you come in, and 'there goes his practice". Or maybe his nurse heard the question and 'blackballed' you from the office, since you 'blue-balled' her boss!

[LickwidSkie]

With the way things are now, men have to be extremely careful around women. All it takes to cost a man his job, reputation, family, and way of life is for a woman to say he did something wrong. He probably didn't want to take any chances of being accused of misconduct.

[Kimchi_doll]

Saying you can’t feel it is a turn off duh 🙄

[Datboi65]

Doctors have very strict protocols that they have to follow, because otherwise the consequences are very severe. He didn't want to risk a lawsuit or his medical license, so I kinda understand the extreme response.

[MrCommodore]

No, not at all. Shame on him, any gynaecologist who is wrist deep in fanny should have the decency to answer that question.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

You are in the UK. And he is a gynaecologist. He is trying to be as safe as he can. Because of all the laws there.

What did you expect?

[1UwishUknew]

IT IS EXTREMELY DISGUSTING OF YOU TO ASK THAT!! There is a time and a place to ask this. When your male gyno has his finger in your nasty whoha is NOT the place. Unless you’re fast which you’re coming off as a double you etch oh are eee

[lightbulb27]

It is if he has a sign like: "Please, don't hit on the Dr. while he's examining your crotch..."

[HippieVeganJewslim]

I wanted to ask a workmate the same question, but wondered whether that was rude. Seems to be OK to ask, as I was asked that question before I was asked out. My thought is: the gynaecologist was wrong.

[RavVid]

I'm inclined to take this as a question mean't to amuse. It has made me laugh.

I do have to ask how did you not feel a wedding ring?

[D_Bone_Steak]

😂 Well at least you want to go back... one of you enjoyed it.

[Heterosketero]

This can't he real hahahahahaha. C'mon. Tell you what though, with humour like that you can take me out for steak anytime you like

[Anonymous]

How things have changed. Back in the day you'd claim to be suffering female hysteria and your doctor would stimulate your clit until you orgasmed.

[nudetru]

jokes like that had he indulged in your sassy sense of humor.. funny girls like take to court for shits n giggles would it be funny if he referred u to a Vet

[exitseven]

I had to read this over a couple of time but I think you are pulling my ;leg.

[megabamse]

He is there to do his job, not to jiggle your bits. So yes that's 100% the reason why

[WowwGirl]

Because he doesn't want to deal with you hitting on him. He would rather not have you as a client then be hit on by you.

[Echosoul]

Yes it's totally inappropriate. The interaction is entirely professional and he's clearly uncomfortable with this.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he thought you were ugly? Or maybe you had too much extra cottage cheese down south

[Randalama]

Because the cheese smells moldy. Who would know better than he? Not very professional of him.

[Luopio27]

This is why you are my favorite gagger.
You could become rich with your own youtube channel.

[nawtee_me]

maybe it is because he was wearing a wedding ring... lol

[Kimchi_doll]

Lmao

[Anonymous]

Maybe he had lost his wedding ring in a patient and was waiting for it to be returned

[Anonymous]

This sounds like an episode of King of Queens.

[eagle1951]

my guess is they don't go for that kind of stuff in the office

[Kelly6]

Nothing wrong in that.

[humanearth]

You didn't really say that did you

[BlackBeauty90]

@purplepoppy - you desperate or stupid?

[MrOracle]

Neither - this is comedy.

[Texaskid1]

Because there is no mystery for him.

[Sasha0426]

You got me for a second 🤣 That’s funny!

[Bricealan]

Her "gyane' clearly has no sense of humor. Besides that, the dumb ass should have taken off his wedding ring anyway, shouldn't he?

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Well, it's rather inappropriate.

[PepePatriot]

I'm guessing he was not single 😂

[Fudgeinmycreampie]

Probably married and took offencre

[OddBeMe]

Because it was actually a gastroenterologist…

[krin_m]

LOL... really? He must be a wuss.

[frankinla]

My friend marred his doctor

[Lliam]

🤣🤣🤣

[EstevanMadrid898]

Hahaha did he at least answer your question?

[LavLavLuv]

Wha- 💀

[LemiaOfThunder]

Not at all

[Bladedaywalker1]

😂😂😂 love that

[riverrat3]

Cannot take a joke