If your husband asked you to not have a male gynecologist, would you do what he told or would you still see the male gynecologist?

[Anonymous]

If your husband told you that he doesn't want you to have any male doctors or gynecologist, would you listen to him? or would you keep seeing your male doctors? and none of this "Women power" crap. no feminists please. if your HUSBAND the man you love, asked you to only have female doctors because he doesn't want any other man touching you or see you, would you change your doctors to all female ones?

yes, I would change my doctors to female ones if my husband asked me to.

No I wouldn't change my doctors. he's out of line and doesn't own me.

[Anonymous]

I think that's pushing it, "doctors"... no especially professionals such as obgyn, it's already uncomfortable field, and hell some women in that field aren't as professional as the men. My honest answer would be no, that in some way has nothing to do with the love we shared and if he insisted because of his insecurity, I'd have to rethink things... now for male friends, if he said no male friends then ok, I'd give that long hard deep thought, I'd think of the no male friends concept, before I humor him on changing my Doctor concept pfffft, that's a bit obseard

[Anonymous]

I am going to the doctor because I care about my health, not to show off my va-jayjay. My husband understands this and respects the fact that it is my body to look after. If it REALLY upset him I would change, but I would think it was a bit of an immature attitude. And I am a feminist <3 but that doesn't mean I hate men, or want to dominate them. I was a little confused about that part of your question :-)

[BellePepper]

That is the most ridiculous thing I've heard. If you find any doctor of any kind you like and trust you should stay with them. If your HUSBAND, the man who supposedly loves you, is prioritizing his petty and absurd jealousy over your health and wellness, there is a serious problem in your relationship.

[GirlScoutsRevenge]

Woman power crap? You mean not letting others dictate to you what you do with your body? Yeah alright love... whatever... but no, my partner would not be dictating to me what medical professional I see. It has nothing to do with him.

[Stephen10]

Well any wife that would go against her husbands wishes like that isn't worth it and should be divorced. If women had half a brain they would realize that having a medical licence doesn't prevent a man from looking at women sexually. And there are numerous cases of male doctors losing their licence for sexual misconduct. But as usual they will use the old bullying tactic trick of calling the husband insecure or posseessive in order to silence him. It's the oldest trick in the book. If my wife behaved like that I would throw her off a cliff.

[DodgersGM]

This is the most obvious dude-with-a-pink-mask question that I've ever seen. LOL

Doctors are doctors, man. My doctor is a female and she examines me. It's not a big deal--it's about as sexual an experience as getting kissed on the cheek by your grandma.

[Genie23]

"This is the most obvious dude-with-a-pink-mask question that I've ever seen"
ROFLMHO! 😂😂😂

[Dandeus]

There are too many of them, and it seems few people are able to spot these kinds of questions. Anonymous gets abused more often than not.

[Anonymous]

Why would he not want you to see a male doctor? It sounds like sever jealousy... The guy literally looks at vaginas all day, if he is going to sleep with one of his patience his entire career would be gone in a second if it went public... not to mention it is your fault as well if you cheat on him... I'd say it sounds controlling to me. he needs to trust you more.

[creepycreeper]

Well that would be a really awkward situation for me because first of all I'm not even gay plus I'm not sure a female gynecologist would appreciate me showing them my junk. Then again it would probably be a refreshing change from her usual routine. ;)

[findingdreamland]

If he really loves me he will trust my decision ; not question it.

I am not seeing a gynecologist for having fun. It is health. There is no gender there. They are just doctors.

[Alyssass]

If you are going to a gyno you are going because of your health? Gender does not matter, they are a doctor and they are not like sexually critiquing you before prescribing some birth control or testing you for illnesses.

[crystalt70]

I would respect my husband's wishes. If it makes him uncomfortable to have another man between my legs, then I would see a woman doctor.

[Prettygurl12]

I already have a female one. I have no interest in some strange man all down there in my business - don't care how experienced or professional he is. So I'd be like, "aye aye, sweetheart!"

[GingerBear]

No I wouldn't. If I was comfortable with that gynecologist and he was a good doctor, I'd keep seeing him. He's a doctor, it's purely professional.

[BelleGirl21]

If It bothered him enough to ask me to switch I would because I really don't care about what my gynocologist is.

[ChuckL77]

Both options are dumb. He It isn't that simple. It sounds like he is controlling. You need to talk to him about this.

[sexyphil]

Tell him that regardless of male or female they are just doing their job and if it is a male gynecologist then there must be a female chaperon so where is the problem?

[Dandeus]

Talk about the mother of all insecurity and possessiveness. Any woman who married a guy like that would probably end up cheating on him.

[Dandeus]

And if never date a woman who would compromise her health to assuage a man's insecurity.

[Anonymous]

You shouldn't change something if you are comfortable with the doctor you have, you should keep him. And to make your husband more comfortable, you should work on your trust to eachother

[Anonymous]

These people are professionals and they behave professionaly. That is the assumption until proven otherwise. In which case we can complain and/or switch anyway.

[Truthfully777]

Husband has a right to not share with Doctor pervert. I would file for a divorce so she could keep her perverted man

[markscott]

Falsefully777: You just assume, out of your great wisdom, that this doctor you have never heard of before this post, is a pervert? That's some fine reasoning there. I have seen many women's vaginas in my work, and I can honestly say, I have never been turned on by one. When you are in a medical setting, your mind is on the task at hand, and your concentration needs to be there to do the job right.