I don't want to sound like I don't like either of them, as that isn't the case. But there isn't one day, literally whereby he isn't on the phone for at least an hour x 4. We'll have dinner, one will ring and he feels obliged to pick it up, he's even put the phone down to me, when one of them has called. Its constant. If he upsets his mum, his sisters calls crying and then his mum rings again, then he needs to call his sister back. Its an endless loop everyday.
I feel like he doesn't think about us or the relationship. His mum has to come to every dinner date we plan. We go his mums and come home at 12, neither of us want to have sex of spend time together. I'm exhausted by him constantly talking about their problems, the advice he gives which they never take snd him ranting on.
I think if I explain how I feel yo him, that he won't see any of it as a problem. He is literally that type of person who doesn't understand others perceptions.
How am i supposed to have a relationship even there's 2 others in it
I feel like he doesn't think about us or the relationship. His mum has to come to every dinner date we plan. We go his mums and come home at 12, neither of us want to have sex of spend time together. I'm exhausted by him constantly talking about their problems, the advice he gives which they never take snd him ranting on.
I think if I explain how I feel yo him, that he won't see any of it as a problem. He is literally that type of person who doesn't understand others perceptions.
How am i supposed to have a relationship even there's 2 others in it
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I have never been this way nor do I know anyone like this. It could be a way to keep distance between you two especially if you are exhausted and seemingly acting out... or as guys say it. "She is 'too much'"... Ghosted.
I can honestly say that I'm not exhausting. I don't see him very often and he is the first to text or call me. I don't put pressure on him.
I think it is cultural and upbringing perhaps
It might be just you.