I met a girl last October that I was really attracted to. We just kept it friendly but I did notice sometimes she would be a bit flirty etc. When this would happen was when her and her ex would fight and take a break. Fast forward to now, they been apart for about a month and a half. From what I know from the past year 1/2, they would break it off and come back and be miserable and break it off.
The other week she mentioned how she doesn’t go outside as much anymore now that she’s single and that she’s going to date older now cause of immaturity etc (she knows I’m 5 years older). I asked her to workout with me, we went and workout and we got really touchy with each other. People think she’s into me as there is a lot of other signs. When we meet it’s always a good time, it’s just she doesn’t initiate. She’ll mention that she’s not doing much certain days, or that she’s been wanting to *insert activity* but I always have to be the one to reach out and set up things like working out. She shows up though, and we have a good time.
I’m hesitant cause she just broke up with the guy and 1 month 1/2 ago. Should I just keep hanging out and having a good time till I know she’s over it. She never really mentioned her ex. All my girl-friends say that I’m way better looking than her ex and to not worry lol.
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It takes 6 months to start grieving and up to 2 years. There is miss each other time from about 3-6th month.-This includes communicating, talking, and maybe even some "good ole times" screwing that you will not know about.
The point is at least 9 months especially if one partner refuses to let go... My worse case scenario was almost 9 months popping up in my spaces and places after Termination date. Some of these activities i did before knew her and while we were dating. And she didn't care or start showing at these places until after we were done.
Every person is different and it also depends on how she felt about you and how important it was to her and how she deals with all that generally and soo many more.
There is no set time everyone moves on at differnt rates