Went on a date with a guy that was constantly telling me that I'm cute, and trying to figure out what my preferences were in guys, and whether he fit my list. He was also very touchy-feelly. We were in the middle of doing an activity that requires lots of concentration, which makes all these comments, questions, and touching seem extra strange. I mean, by a certain point in a guy's life, he should have realized that that makes him look simply in love with love, derranged, and after more than one woman at a time.

I don't see any red flags here except the touching part.

For who? The man or the woman. Because yes, a woman that ASKS this question could be a very big red flag.

Well jamm, at least it’s a wee change from the Filfthy Casuals, not saying he isn’t one.

They are a red flag all the time Real men don't act mushy

Yes. If she is that open with me... she's probably as open with other guys (and I've been cheated on before).

To me it is, wtf that ain’t lol 😂

Yeah definitely, Cringe-worthy behaviour

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I don't see any red flags here except the touching part.

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For who? The man or the woman. Because yes, a woman that ASKS this question could be a very big red flag.

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Well jamm, at least it’s a wee change from the Filfthy Casuals, not saying he isn’t one.

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They are a red flag all the time
Real men don't act mushy

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Yes. If she is that open with me... she's probably as open with other guys (and I've been cheated on before).

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To me it is, wtf that ain’t lol 😂

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You nailed it!

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Yes, it’s a warning sign..

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Yeah definitely, Cringe-worthy behaviour

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This doesn't make sense ma'am

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Red flags of being simps, maybe

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Yes!

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  this is the first stge of love bombing
  
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