Date doesn’t text me much. is this normal?

[Anonymous]

We’ve been dating for a month. I went to his house twice and all we did was kiss and do sexual things. He isn’t asking me much about myself. We don’t even talk much on text. He just sends me an emoji or says he misses my hugs and kisses. I ask to see him more often than once a week and he says he has other things scheduled like friends, family etc. which is fair I guess but then he said in a joking way that he can try schedule me in next week. Although, I’m not entirely sure he was joking. I told him I want to slow things down when it came to the physical stuff (we haven’t had full on sex yet) and he agreed and kissed me. When I left his house he didn’t want to drive me back to the station and ordered an Uber instead because he was too tired. He doesn’t care about me does he? Please spell it out to a naive person like myself

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1 y

He’s always online but doesn’t text me

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1 y

He is 8 years older than me if that means anything

[misogynistic_pig]

There is no definitive answer to this question, since the number of text messages that are sent during a relationship depends on many factors, such as each person's personality, their communication styles, and their work and daily life schedules.

However, it is important to remember that communication is critical to maintaining a healthy and happy relationship.

If you feel like you're not getting enough texts from your partner and this is causing you stress or worry, you may want to talk to him or her about how you're feeling.

Try to express your concerns openly and respectfully, and listen to your partner's opinions as well.

Together, you can find a way to communicate that meets both of your needs and strengthens your relationship.

[Asker]

Can I dm you? I would appreciate a man’s take. Got more questions if that’s alright?

[Asker]

Just followed you. If you follow me back I can dm you

[slatyb]

Sooner with about what he is thinking and pay attention to how you feel. You sound unhappy. Tell him what you want. If he doesn't respond, end it and meet someone who cares.