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I don't understand. Why has it been so hard for me to find a guy to fall in love with me and want to marry me.. A DECENT guy mind you? (Page 2)
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So no man has ever professed an interest toward you, ever?
There was, but unfortunately, when I met him, he was a divorced drug addict with a child and how he is homeless. I know I know, my picker was obviously broken! But I was horny (in my early 30's) and he was attractive blue eyes and dirty blonde hair.
There's good guys out. In a few I'll be available to actually date. Yet, you might be too far away.
Let me guess.. you consider yourself an "empath" right?
Of course, but it's a double-edged sword. That can be a good or bad thing depending on what it is.
And that's exactly why absolutely nobody is gonna fall in love with you. You think you're unique.
1. It's good to be an empath. It means you actually CARE about others and their feelings. A rare thing nowadays especially, at least from what I've observed!
2. I KNOW I am unique. EVERYONE is special in their own way. Nobody else looks like me, acts like me, has the same genetic code (except for maybe twins), etc. So yes, I DO pride myself in being special. I've been through a lot in life so I think I DO deserve some special treatment, but in all seriousness..
Shut the fuck up
Stop chasing Chad Thundercock. You met your husband in your 20's but you curbed him.
Uh, 1, I am NOT going to be willing to date someone I am not attracted to, is 4/10 in looks and personality no thanks! I'm not THAT desparate!
"Another "49'er", a four who thinks she is a nine, talking about her "standards". Enjoy your cats."
Dude you're an asshole. Get out of here! Since when did I show you my picture anyway? ! And what evidence made you rate me so low? ! 😞 I hope nobody is mean to you like this. This was a serious question! I guess you just don't have a heart do you!
@TenderFantasy. Women like you are a dime-a-dozenz and you have created your own problems. You partied hard through your peak years, hooking up, having all the power in dating. Now you are like a former millionaire who pissed away all her money. No sympathy.
Why has it been so hard for me to find a DECENT girl to fall in love with me and want to marry me?
One only has to listen to you for 10 minutes and it's very apparent why. What is truly sad is why many women like you can't understand why.
I’m sure you will find someone
you're desperate. that's the problem
Some guys can be desparate too but they are lucky because probably more women are looking for a serious relationship than men are so it doesn't matter to them! They like him for HIM! I've seen it happen. So unfair.
most guys dont want commitments
But are you not too old for kids
Maybe. But that's beside the point. My aunt, she got lucky because she met someone when she was in her mid 40's (in 2012) and they tried fertility treatments and it worked for them and now they have twins. She JUST turned 49 when she gave birth to them, and I'm not kidding. I don't mind having foster children if that helps. My mother was on her last baby at 39 but she, unfortunately, had a stillbirth. This was back in 1992.
Because modern women are a joke
Maybe your standards are too high.
I wish I could find the woman of my life :(
impossible to find a completely compatible one