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So there's a rock club in my city, it's the only one where I live so it has a lot of people who come there regularly
I was looking at the website to look for concerts and I was looking at pictures from past shows and I saw a guy who looks 100% like my type and now I have a crush on this random stranger lmao. He looks a lot older than me though, he may be like 35 and I'm 20 and in these pictures he's talking to some woman I don't know if it's his girlfriend or whatever
I'm hoping it isn't and that maybe I'll see him at a show one day but I don't know what I should do then. I know I look good and men hit on me a lot (always the wrong ones though) but I'm very shy and I also don't want to bat my eyes at some possibly taken guy. What can I do? If he even comes back there lol.
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It's natural to develop a crush on someone you find attractive, but it's important to approach the situation with caution and respect for the other person's boundaries and relationship status.
If you happen to see this person at a show, you can try striking up a conversation with him, but it's important to be respectful and not come on too strong. It's also important to respect his relationship status, and not pursue him if he is already in a committed relationship.
If you are feeling shy, you can try starting with small talk or asking him about the music or the show. It's important to be confident and genuine, and not to put too much pressure on the interaction.
Ultimately, whether or not you pursue this person is up to you, but it's important to approach the situation with respect and consideration for all parties involved. If he is not interested or is already in a committed relationship, it's important to respect his decision and move on.
It must suck to be so picky that you only take interest in guys who you'll only see once in your entire life. Not a chance in hell girl. Sorry
Actually I'm not picky at all, I used to be but now I like lots of guys I just thought maybe because there's so many people who go there every weekend he could be one of them