Anyone have an idea as to why this guy stopped replying? 28F, this always happens to the guys I’m physically attracted to most?

[Anonymous]

And no, I’m not double texting

Dry texter

Not a dry texter

[Anonymous]

Think of it like you are in like a speed dating competition. Speed dating because you really don’t have long to connect before one of you will move on if you aren’t feeling a spark, and competition only because he’s both encountering and talking to who knows how many women he’s been able to engage. Same for you if you have had success. The downside with online dating is there’s no guarantee that someone else won’t find the same guy hot, and they may have a better connection. It all comes with the territory, so don’t take it personal. As for your text, to be honest you’re kinda bland lol but it will work for the right guy. However you have to engage more. Just saying happy hump day or other flat responses won’t trigger every guys interest. So no you don’t have to change if that’s just how you talk but in that case you’ll really be waiting for the right one, or at least your opposite who talks a lot lol.

[Anemone978]

You seem boring and said "Oh Pooo"...

[Asker]

And so what? What’s wrong with saying oh poo instead of cursing?

[Anemone978]

You don't have to curse but that phrase just seems really juvenile and corny lol

[Gingerbread_GB]

That's it? It felt fairly benign. If you are really interested in the guy, you could've talked more about yourself and ask some more questions. The conversation just fizzled. I don't think it has anything to do with how the guy looks physically.

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know. I will send a few messages and if someone is gonna ignore me. They’re not worth my time if I show effort and they dont

[spartan55]

I fell asleep half way through reading that conversation.

[Christoff92]

He got nervous and ran off assuming 🤔