Girls, Do you need a man in your life?

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This is a 2nd or 3rd date question I ask.  It tells me whether I should take the girl seriously or not.

SueShe · Accepted Answer

I am single and celibate by choice and conviction. Life has proved that my decision was the right one.

I keep saying it over and over again but for all those that have not yet heard my arguments, here they come.

I do what I want whenever I want
I clean my own mess only
I have the freedom to do as I want without having to take others into consideration
I don't have the pressure to deliver or perform the way others want
I only have to worry about my own stupidity and nonsense
I can cry watching a romantic movie without getting those looks from a tough guy
I go to bed whenever I want and above all, alone
I don't go on others' nerves when I am moody
I eat what I like and only cook for one person and not an army
I save money by not having to go out or to a restaurant
I decorate my place to my liking
I have no mistrust issues
I could tell another million and one other arguments

And to all those that argue that the most important is missing, I say no, I do not place importance on what you are thinking of and to me it is not a loss not to have it.

Given my choices, I do not need a man in my life. I just cannot see myself having a person, be it a man or woman in my life just for the sake of fornication. This kind of activity plays strictly no role and I place no importance on that sporting activity.

I am concentrating on my education and that one takes up all my time and energy. I just don't want to split it between 2 different things and at my age, a good education is much more important than a broken heart.

PrettyPriya · Accepted Answer

Personally speaking, yeah I do. Is that something to ask someone on the second or third date? Nope. If she is on a date with you, I think it is pretty obvious she wants a man in her life. That comes off cringy in my opinion. Honestly, if someone asked me that on a date, I would respond with something like “Are you serious right now?”.

I would start questioning the guy’s intelligence as well. If I am on multiple dates, it is clear what my intentions are.

As I mentioned, I do need a man in my life. Ever since I was young, I wanted to be a mom. It is ingrained in me. I was put on this earth to be a mother some day. While this is achievable without a partner, I prefer to have a traditional family the way most go about it.

Lucky for me, I found said man and I am perfectly happy with my marriage and life with him. We will start trying for our first later this year. I could not be more excited at the prospect of finally being a mom and starting a family.

arodriguez664 · Answer

I don't need a man. I'm pretty financially self sufficient and can entertain myself. Having said that, I perform better as a human with a partner. So I like having one, and when I don't have one I want one. Is it absolutely necessary? No. I can function just fine on my own 😊 my boyfriend likes my independence

Agape93 · Answer

Nope. Do I want one, sure, sometimes.

astrophelle · Answer

No I have a boyfriend already.

Anonymous · Answer

No woman "needs" a man.

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