Does your opinion of older men being more mature than young men match your experience?

[TheSimFans]

Many women believe older men are mature, but I have never experienced it with a guy who was older than me who said he was too old for me, changed his mind, and I wasn't interested at all. I blocked one of the men after he said he was a bit too old for me. My last guy that I metup with was in a relationship with another woman after we met up and I saw it on Facebook. so i don't think is not true older men can be just as immature as younger men and age doesn't matter at all. How do you feel about older men being mature?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Maturity is physical development, but if you are talking about wisdom, age has no impact on that, a 5 year old can do trig in his head and a 60 year old can be an idiot, and people often disagree on what is or isn't wise do to personal preferences and knowledge gaps.

[TheSimFans]

wisdom maybe but not all. i'm 24 year old and knew something was wrong since the i has some experince with two other guy that i also give up since one of did start I'm be very busy and other one was too busy the last men that 33 year old didn't seem to wisdom and seem to bit immature rushing into relationship that i didn't want to go fast but went with women that also seem to be older. I'm ok now since i move on to new person.

[Luckycharms12]

Mature in age maybe doesn't mean in life depends on lot factors some people have grown up faster than others

[Tiptoetamm]

When I was your age I definitely went for much older men than me. I thought they would be more mature and have their shit together and some do some don't age really doesn't matter bthe older I get the more I realize this. My man is the youngest guy I've been with since I was 18 and he's 2 years older than me so it all depends on the person. Not so much about age once you hit your late 20s and 30s

[molonski2]

You've reacted in the incorrect manner , those guys were only saying "am I " ( too old for you ) , its a polite way of working things out , I'm not arguing either way people get too invested in what works for others , but its always worked out well for me.

Naturally older men are more mature , but only in general terms.

[TheSimFans]

kind off but i experince it different older men are not mature and not the one that i meetup that was 33 year old but was still immature and went go fast but i wanted to go slow and i knew something was wrong and move on next guy. for me having a learning disability s not true. is might be true to mainstream people but not true for learning disability men.

[smashleyy]

I use to think age played a huge factor in maturity, intelligence, and wisdom so the older the better but I’ve since realized that’s not the case and they could be just as brain dead as guys my own age just worse looking. maturity comes down to the individual, age isn’t significant

[Haha456]

From my experience, not all young men are immature. It really depends on the type of person you are dealing with. I just went on a date with a 22 yr old guy and if he didn't tell me that he was 22. I would never have suspected her was younger than me. I'm 27

[Adam1978]

Old men are mature that why they question your choice. If you really mature yourself you should just confirm you know what you are doing and getting yourself into and isn't playing games.

[TheSimFans]

@adam1978I got a learning disability and men that i meetup with was 33 year old but yet wanting to rush into a relationship and i didn't but he got into another relationship with another men after meeting up. so is that mature or immature then? texting a new men that 31 year old want to go slow and be careful. both of men did have learning disabilities but not meetup with one 31 year old since i started texting and messing each other. My experince one men is not mature but was older then me.

[TheSimFans]

meant got into a relationship with another women and not a men.

[FreyaRed]

In my experience older guys are often just better actors. Most of them are the same cunning mofos below the mature surface like guys in 20ies.

[shades777]

I'm not yet an old man but I've dated women 10 years younger than me and find I have a wealth of knowledge they have yet to acquire, and general common sense is better tuned than theirs, my goals are more logic and less frivolous

[CrimsonAngel09]

Yeah... I've seen older men on here not being mature that's for sure.

[Siri137]

Older men are not necessarily more mature, and young men are not necessarily immature.

[itsalyssaagain]

No. Funny enough the guys my age act mature and the older ones I’ve met have been so childish.

[TheSimFans]

i can't even get guys my age some of them are immature also and some of them are not interest in having a relationship but more interest in fried zone me and most of young men don't really care and also got a learning disability that doesn't help with my dating since i can only date men with a learning disabilities.

[itsalyssaagain]

Finding a boyfriend takes time. If you look at my profile all I do is complain about being single. And when I’m in a relationship, I complain I’m not being treated right lol.

[TheSimFans]

ok i don't get many option since some of them get taken or they were already taken. i only been using online dating since i try to join social groups, social events and no-one is interested in a relationship and give up.

[itsalyssaagain]

It’s okay girl keep going. It took me 2 years before my last relationship

[Date_a_Snob]

its why I ONLY date older men

[TheSimFans]

yet i meat ion older men can be immature. so age doesn't matter since both age group can be just immature or mature.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, always.

[Guardian45]

How old are the guys you're dating?

[TheSimFans]

not dating anyone at moment. just meetup with one men that was 33 year old but go into a relationship with another women after meetup. i move on to new men that is 31 year old and can't find any guys that are youngers men since they are not interested in dating or relationship. i looking more for relationship. so far age meant nothing that comes with immature.

[Guardian45]

I think you shouldn't give up on an older man, who might be more aligned with you.

[TheSimFans]

@guardian45which one but i already tried with yonger men but similar issue being immature , toxic one young men that was my last ex boyfriend. i used to only date men young then me but still were immature. not many learning disabilities men that i met has be more immature or already got a girlfriends. so what other choice do i go for if both young men are immature and some older men going to be immature. by the way they was to different guys. that i didn't mention in you opinion but mention someone else opinion. don't know what the mean more aligned to me?

[Guardian45]

Are you ND? I am ND. Look for older men who might be more similar to you and your needs.

[TheSimFans]

@guardian45 I don't understand what ND means and I'm not from London. have a learning disability
and have to date men with a learning disabilities

[Guardian45]

You and I are Neurodivergent.

www.verywellhealth.com/neurodivergent-5216749

[TheSimFans]

ok similar but is hidden and i can do ok with some task and jobs but comes to date has be mostly diffluent since i focus on finding boyfriend that hasn't happen but did in the previous times.