Back in the good 'ol days if a guy died without finding a wife and having kids they'd plant nettles and thistles on his grave as a warning to the young to try harder.
If we brought back that custom do you think guys today would put more effort into trying to impress women?
Would the threat of nettles on your grace encourage you to try harder at dating?
Boobslayer impresses women! He loves to compliment a woman's bosoms, telling her how beautiful and amazing they are. He also play with her funbags, gently massaging and caressing them. His hands know just the right way to show his appreciation of tig ol bitties. The chebblies he treats gentle and then firm, making the experience pleasurable for both him and the woman. He loves to explore different ways of playing the bongos – he loves to tease and tantalize her cha-chas, making her aroused as if by a good piece of music and wanting more. He always finds new ways to pleasure the dongles, and always leaves her nunga-nungas feeling satisfied and content. So why wait, let Mary Kate and Ashley out today.
Maybe, probably depends on the guy. The area I live in now, the guys don't care about their girlfriends. They refer to them as bitches and hoes, so these guys, definitely not, lol.
Where I lived before this, the guys were more respectful, so some of them probably would. The reason it's so hard to find a girlfriend is because people are so picky. My voice sounds nasally since my allergies started acting up, so I doubt anyone would want to date a guy that sounds like me, so yeah, I'd say it depends on the guy.
I don't believe I've ever felt less pain during a bout of illness simply because I had people to offer emotional support so I don't think dying alone would be much different from dying with family and friends near by. But there is one thing which is that I recover from illness faster if I'm doing social activities with people. Like I notice my back pain goes away faster if I'm talking to people online.
I believe its important knowing where we've been. Traditions, especially family traditions, speak volumes of past loved ones. We need to know that we don't have to settle, true love is put there. Real men know what needs to be done. The problem today is too many boys haven't really grown up.
Men aren't going to be interested in serious relationships in the kinds of numbers they used to be until the laws are changed. Marriage is a state contract, and it's a contract where women are incentivized to break and rewarded when they do. Broken homes are now the norm instead of the exception, and that's rarely good for anyone, but especially not kids or husbands.
When they understand that the game is rigged against them - severely - a lot of men give up and quit the game entirely.
Not if woman didn't put out a bigger effort with men. I am all about these traditional customs and things that men should do for woman. But it only works if woman want to start doing the traditional things they were supposed to do for men.
I personally think this is a double edged sword. And a lot of ways more and more women have become less and less timid, and they're being much more outspoken in there once and desires. Not only that I would say at least in my personal life, I have slowly over the last 10 or so years become more and more selfless and eager to please, and make sure that she is treated a little bit like she's on a bit higher of a pedestal than I am yet keeping my normal day-to-day kind of life really truly Alpha and having to be completely in charge
No. I don't think we have it reinforced into our family values and culture enough for it to work, We fear death and not having those things but We place a higher priority on being successful at our jobs and at a social level. I have a child and I agree on two subjects if You want to chase a caree and have a plan don't have children yet there is time for that but also if the trend of caree and supporting ourselves and our bills over another persists it will mess with how many young people we have for the more demanding jobs, ultimately effecting the retirement age.
Hey little Pops, how are you. Guess, I always wanted to never marry before 40, since a bachelor lives the life of a king , but dies like a dog. So I wanted maximum play on both sides. So now I'm trying, but I guess with age you get more choosy and you can't afford to be. I wish a nice girl would fall into my lap. Will you pray for me little Pop's, ( or the thorns will prick me to eternity), if your prayers are successful, I'll name you as my first child's godmother, would do u say? agree?
Sure most guys would not give a damn about being threaten with nettles on their grave... Things just happen, and I don't see why there should be any obligation to "try harder". By the way Poppy, did you know nettles can be eaten? ;0)
They're also used in soup and risotto for instance, and to spice up some hard cheeses (in the cheese I mean, not only to wrap). Maybe some people indeed make tea with nettles; why not actually; can't be bad.
I think it's the treat of nettles on our grace while we're still alive that's making us try a lot less just to be honest. I mean even Chad and Tyrone are going to get played if they don't play the women first nowadays.
As for me I’m going in the smoker so I don’t plan on spending my death days rotting away in the dirt but if I do plant whatever you want & feel free to plant pot or poison Ivy if you like.
Why on earth should WE have to try harder? If anything this sort of threat would make men just not wanna try AT ALL. Either we get shamed in death for being single, or we go out of our way to embarrass ourselves for the "Illustrious Honor" of being the glorified slave of an entitled brat who's probably gonna cheat on us in a few years anyway.
Why should guys have to try to impress women? If a man likes a woman he should ask her out, if a woman likes a man she should ask him out, using threats of disgrace of one’s grave if a man doesn’t be more desperate to find a partner doesn’t seem like a morally or strategically good idea
I mean I don't try to impress women. And I never have tried to get. Them to like me. But at this point in my life before we are in a relationship , and before we even say hey , she already has to like me.
Wow, when I read this headline I thought it was going to be nettles on my junk. Such a relief. I’m married with kids so no nettles for me I just get needled during my life. C’est La Vie.
No, because right-thinking men would clear the crap off of his grave and instead leave beer, cash, and pictures of him living large without a nagging bitch.
Why in hell would I care what is planted on my grave?
1
0 Reply
Anonymous
(18-24)
+1 y
I can't imagine being buried and anyone giving a fuck about me. It's a different era. Families are small and nobody cares about you the second you're dead. So I can't imagine this motivating many people.
0
0 Reply
Anonymous
(25-29)
+1 y
No, better buried in the nettles than unmarked on death row for violating the MeToo statues
Girl's Behavior 
Guy's Behavior 
Flirting 
Dating 
Relationships 
Fashion & Beauty 
Health & Fitness 
Marriage & Weddings 
Shopping & Gifts 
Technology & Internet 
Break Up & Divorce 
Education & Career 
Entertainment & Arts 
Family & Friends 
Food & Beverage 
Hobbies & Leisure 
Other 
Religion & Spirituality 
Society & Politics 
Sports 
Travel 
Trending & News 
