Went on a date with a girl last night, later into the night I invite one of my friends and she invites one of hers. Eventually my buddy is about to leave and he tells me “apparently (girls friend) told me that she wanted me to take you with me because she’s got another guy coming to the bar once you leave”. Strangely the girl I was with seemed very interested in me the entire time so I’m fairly confused. She was holding my hand, touching my legs, rubbing her legs between mine, pretty classic signs of interest. Either way should I call her out?
Yikes, she is a worst scenario there. I don't think you should bother calling her out, I think you should not go out on a date with her ever again. Don't contact her and if she ever contacts you just tell her 'no longer interested.'
Her showing all that intimate interest in you on a first date is a red flag. Most people don't go that hard unless they're trying to have sex right away, which she might have been aiming for. She may have had the next guy lined up already as her own set date night for vetting out guys, with you included. Or, she may have reached out to him while you were on the date with her if she felt like you weren't picking up on her cues for sex, so she got bored and done and hit up the other guy to meet up there, assuming she was on her phone during the date.
Not entirely sure, but I think those things are what you need to consider in seeing how she probably is not a good option. And for all you know, she might even have mental issues you're not aware of. Either way, the fact that she would have another guy ready after dating you is a sign that she's not a good prospect. You don't want to date a woman who's just meeting up with guys for team try outs and disrespectfully sees all of you as options or a harem of suitors.
Do not call her out or have any contact with her again.
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This is a hard one to answer, but I generally avoid any friction whenever possible. Maybe after I've read some of the other responses, I'll be able to give you a better opinion.
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No, you should hold yourself accountable for letting it happen
You can just ask her if she is interested or just dating guys
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