Should I date a man who can't hold a conversation?

Question

What to do if a man can't hold an interesting conversation and is just interested in kissing you or touching you.

WonderBell99 · Accepted Answer

Depends on what you're talking about. Are you talking about makeup, gossip and celeb drama? Or are you talking about things he is interested in as well? People, in general, love it when you talk about something they love/are passionate about. If you want an interesting conversation, start talking about interesting things. If he doesn't respond well and cannot hold a conversation even then, he might be interested only in getting into your pants. However, some men are not good at talking, they are good listeners.

SaRang21 · Accepted Answer

If you want sort term fling, then it doesn't matter. But if you want long term serious relationship, then it's important that two people have to be able to hold a conversation. When you are young or when the passion is still here, you can maintain your relationship with sex and passion, but when it fades away, what can maintain your relationship? You can't just sit together and no talking.

BungusHighFivePizza · Accepted Answer

I'm thinking if I'm a girl that he better got a big dong and bank account to make up for it because I wanna cuddle and talk to him all night and if he's not gonna do that, I at least want some AI 14-inch Nubian vibrator that tells me I'm beautiful every day.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

Depends on your desires. Do you just want to have a wild sexual romp without any commitment or meaningful relationship?

Anonymous · Answer

I just so happen to be in a relationship where I can't hold a conversation to save my life but we make it work through asking each other questions. I know it's not the traditional thing to do or what you may not want to hear but that's our relationship. If you can find ways to make it work like such as asking each other questions then do it. You may find out a lot about him that way and vice versa.

Girl242 · Answer

He can hold a conversation. He's probably just not interested in the things you two are talking about. Perhaps he doesn't care to have a conversation with you. One thing is for sure, he can hold a conversation.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

And what will you do when the honeymoon period ends and you’ll get interested in other things other than sleeping with him? How will you spend your times together?

ArrowheadSW · Answer

Depends how important conversation is to you. But also, he really should be able to discuss things when need be.

provokeesmokee · Answer

Nah. He isn't dating you. He wants to wham, bam, bye bitch. Won't even thank you, ma'am.

SnowedIn · Answer

Nooooo! Lol. There will come a point when the kissing will stop and you'll want conversation.

bowenw · Answer

You need to be able to have good conversations and communicate well to be in a serious relationship in my opinion.

MementoMori777 · Answer

Why would you is my question, what do they have to offer besides a penis and a pair of lips

runnerboy · Answer

If you just want sex and nothing more then he might be ok for you, if you want a relationship then he is not for you. Which do you want?

Shy_Steve · Answer

More than likely he is talking like that because he really likes you. Just keep spending time with him if you think he is Attractive and eventually he will become more relaxed around you.

Jazzy54 · Answer

I’d say no, but I’m a big conversationalist. Therefore, I couldn’t. I’d get bored.

ImalwaysrightOK · Answer

It doesn't sound like it'd be a good relationship.

MeatPuppet · Answer

Get him tipsy first somewhere open, tranquil and quiet first, see what happens. Might give him the comfort he needs to open up a little.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

He likely feels the same way about you. Most women expect men to carry the full intellectual load of a relationship.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

If he doesn’t open up and have conversations you will get bored soon

Chthou95 · Answer

This is why men need to work on their social skills to be more successful with women. Women expect men to lead the conversation

OddBeMe · Answer

Use him for sex but but look for another guy. Conversation and humor is 99% of a relationship.

Alex8736 · Answer

100% NO... your better off just talking to yourself

Engin12 · Answer

Well some of us dont like to talk as much as you girls do. If you believe him to be a nice person the rest shouldn't be a problem.

SigmaNiggeh · Answer

He desperately needs you so yes! Would probably be very greatful and happy to be with you. Also he'd probably open up more after sex.

slatyb · Answer

Up to you. Do you want to kiss him?

Nikki1989 · Answer

That wouldn't work for me.

LazerBean · Answer

That's just pathetic.

Anonymous · Answer

Just date the guy you want.

Malwi93 · Answer

What do u wanna talk about

Anonymous · Answer

It depends how hawt he is.

Cheerfull009 · Answer

No, as he is only after sex, not in real love

shortster · Answer

How bad is it?

boobliker · Answer

yyesss! WHY NOT

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