Do you believe in love 💔?

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I don’t believe in it anymore as a young man. I used to believe in it for sure.

In more recent years it’s much more about the level of status, money and achievement that the man holds.

Nothing is real anymore.

Dating is really competitive, I can’t even get a date. Yet everyone believes I must have it easy.

SaRang21 · Accepted Answer

I believe in love! I believe love comes when you least expect it, when you fall in love with the person you never thought you would fall for is another type of true love. Such love happens spontaneously. You will even wonder why did I fall in love for that person?

"In more recent years it’s much more about the level of status, money and achievement that the man holds." What you said is right. Why is finding love so hard? Instead of saying finding love is hard, it's better to say finding someone to date is hard. Because this is when people "fall in love intentionally", Just like men, they "intentionally" seek out women who are good looking, women "intentionally" seek out men who are handsome or rich, those aren't really love, but they just want a partner, those just happen with mere chemistry and because they are both single. As you grow older, it will be harder to find spontaneous love.

I understand your frustration, the world isn't fair and love is really hard to find, no matter what you are, regardless of your level of status, money and achievement, you deserve true love. Please don't give up on love, I hope you find someone who you truly want to give love and love. Despite believing in love, I also believe "what's meant for you will be yours".

Loveydove · Accepted Answer

I believe in love. I believe love happens every day. Love is all around us and there are so many forms of love. Romantic love however is two fold. I definitely Believe love, the romantic kind, can give you butterflies, can sweep you off your feet, can leave you feeling breathless. The love that brings you flowers or chocolates or takes you on candlelit dates. You know the stuff in the movies. I also think a more pure less talked about form of love is the sacrificial kind. The kind that says “I have vowed to love you therefore I choose you even when I don’t feel love necessarily” The love that remembers its promise. The love that walks with you in suffering or when you are feeling down. The love that just loves.

love is still out there. Remember it only takes one person and then that’s it. Keep on believing

stepyo99 · Accepted Answer

Love exists. Feminists are incapable of it, but there are plenty of genuinely traditionally-minded women (not the fakers who say they're traditional but their actions and beliefs prove otherwise) out there who are capable of love. I've seen it. The unfortunate reality is that those women are few and far between, though. Your only hope is to keep actively searching and if you do find a good woman, for God's sake don't fuck it up.

razelove · Accepted Answer

I do, but I didn't when I was your age. Just beef up and pick women up in college towns. Either it'll click one day where you want to date, and learning to not feel anxious or be played will help you there, or you won't, and will have the skillset and momentum to keep getting tail while not caring.

AviatorTom · Answer

Love is an invitation to be oneself. If you love someone, you accept them for who they are.

Many people confuse love with lust, which is totally different. "I can't live without you" is not love, it's lust.

provokeesmokee · Answer

I've had 3 long term relationships, 2 men, 1 woman. I'm interested only in women, transmen, bi men, and enbies.

Even though none of my relationships led to a lifetime love, they were really lovely for most of their time period.

I've found love 3 times (more if we count missed connections and rejections), and I'll find more.

Get some therapy, dude. Being a washed up bitter edgelord at your age is a big turn off, and a major sign you've got some unresolved mental health issues.

It's ok to need to talk to someone about your feelings. Just don't try to make that anyone but a paid professional.

FreyaRed · Answer

Love exist, but you will pay the price.
I had to kill love I felt for someone because my rational mind haven't seen any future with this person. From perspective today, it was good decision, but killing the love you feel to someone is like killing a part of yourself. After this action, nothing will ever hurt you mentally. You know the rules so you can play this game easily but you won't love really anyone.

Jltakk · Answer

I believe love exists, but my definition of it has changed over the years. I believe the line between love and like is one is hormonal and not based in logic but raw drive. The other is based in logic and may feel less steamy. Thats my own internal Websters dictionary definition.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

As for me I believe in a lot of things & love & lust is one of them & as for love it works in mysterious ways & ways I will welcome all the way.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Of course, I have been in love several times and now have been deeply in love with the same man for almost 7 years.

AlexEfron · Answer

No.

Not just dating. I don't find anyone trustworthy. People are fickle minded and superficial. Throughout my 24 years of lifespan, I haven't seen or known a single person whom I'd consider worth being with. Not even one.

MementoMori777 · Answer

Yea cause I know it exists, do I have hopes in finding it, very little but for some reason I can't seem to crush the hopes completely

SolitarySolace · Answer

No. I do not believe in love. I have my reasons. But if I attempt to explain those reasons people will claim that it’s my own fault. Doesn’t change the fact that I don’t believe in love.

itsalyssaagain · Answer

I do but I don’t think you always end up with each other. And that depends on so many factors. But you can definitely love someone. Of course.

strateguy632 · Answer

love is real but relationships not by love as you wrote

Rangers · Answer

It's an illusion, just like happiness and satisfaction

SigmaNiggeh · Answer

I don't believe that lust is love. I love all my pets. I've never loved a women I've fucked. Half the time I've been with a women I've felt violated instead.

Mallic00 · Answer

I believe in friendship, i dont believe in love. Love is commonly used by people who wanna backstab others.

Taylor_C · Answer

What does that even mean?

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Yep. Because I loved.

Simslover92 · Answer

Yes I believe in love.

gothbxtch · Answer

i do believe in love!

Likes2drive · Answer

Yeah it’s just so hard to find

LiamJHayden · Answer

Yes. I create my own and give it to others.

Minahh · Answer

You know what they say never lose hope

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Definitely not

whistlingwh0res · Answer

I believe it but it’s hard to find

Agape93 · Answer

Yeap

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