How do I find a gamer girl to date without it feeling like this?

[clampfan101]

Anime name, please? lol

I’m not guilty of these, by the way.

Video games are a big part of who I am, being a great source of not only entertainment but creativity, music, and more. I’d love to have a girl that shares that passion. But first I need to not look like a random creep. lol

[es20490446e]

Girls only believe that you are a creep if you believe that yourself. Girls would love you to approach, even if they try to show the opposite.

When I talk to a woman what I try to convey is that it is natural for me to be attracted to her, and her to want sex with me.

I'm not explicit about it, neither I hide it. I usually convey it with light humor and simple compliments. Being silly is quite easy humor, but highly effective.

In case of doubt just have a normal conversation, focusing on positive things that are going on around you or that she likes.

Just let her do most of the talking, ask her questions, and rephrase what she says to see if you understand what she means.

Look at her face and near it. Use a similar volume and tone than her.

[es20490446e]

Also see that everyone has a downside. Embrace it, and see that you have many other positives.

Same your interlocutor.

[LiamJHayden]

Just be laid back and let the competition eliminate themselves.

[es20490446e]

This is true.

Most women I have dated had many men floating around, but they were unwilling to date them because they self disqualified with their VERY stupid behavior.

Just acting like a human does wonders.

[clampfan101]

What does that mean, exactly?

[es20490446e]

It means that most competitors will do so bad that in practice they are promoting anyone who doesn't.

[asphaltrhymes]

I'd rely on friends, or like minded similar interests friends you could ask who's single of who's single, or going to festivals/communities of gamer competitions, the comic festivals, or just rely on dating apps. And hope or luck finds ya 👀👏🏻✌🏻☮️ and I hope you meet someone into you who's into gaming someday 👀 surely 20s natural born female gamers exist, single 😜🤪👍

[clampfan101]

I have no friends, and have tried every dating app I’ve seen with at least half decent reviews, and I can’t drive yet…

[asphaltrhymes]

I wouldn't stress my good stranger bro, there's always time and there's always daydreams instead 👀 on the plus side, there's always pros and cons and ways of looking at luck in life versus unlucky in dating but you know often Fantasy is better than Reality. Lol. Ah well. Maybe just attend more gaming competitions or conventions, be fun and smiley, be yourself and be merry. being avoidant or too quiet even at a gaming convention could be don't approach versus I'm friendly approach me. Lol 😬 best wishes and peace ✌🏻😋

[asphaltrhymes]

@clampfan101 if gaming conventions are too expensive, I guess you could always just try online gaming forums, or simply just being okay or content with being single, as merrily as I am but doesn't mean I can't always daydream of perfect women that don't exist, like any person who dreams of their Prince charmings with an s or princesses with an s. Anyways 😬😋 chin up bro. After all, you could always just date for someone less interesting or just date nobody at all, but you can always love you and love yourself and be merry for what you do have 👍🤗

[asphaltrhymes]

Compared to say someone in the middle of nowhere who doesn't even have wifi or has never heard of the internet 😬😬😬😋👍. Have a fabulous weekend and year ahead 😋👍

[zagor]

Try a dating site and specify that.

[clampfan101]

I tried so many dating apps and sites. No one noticed me.

[zagor]

Maybe a gaming convention? Though I suspect those are 95% male.

[clampfan101]

Those are too expensive for me still…

[DextroShade]

You have got your work cut out for you bro.

[Lady_Heart]

Goodluck

[KrakenAttackin]

You can't.

[asphaltrhymes]

You never know, life can be magical and mysterious and for all we know, even someday in the far future for all us, reincarnation may await and we get another go-around lol 🤗😬 of luck 🤞