I met a guy on Bumble like a month ago. He asked me on a proper date (he picked the date, time, location, made reservation, asked me if he could pick me up). The date lasted over 3 hours. We texted almost daily the following week, and he asked me out again, but he ended up cancelling last minute because of a family emergency. The next weekend, he asked me out again, and we out for coffee and again, our date lasted over 3 hours. He said he really like talking to me, etc. And the following days, if I mentioned a place to eat, he would be like “we should go there and try it”. That week, I had to go to ER because of an accident, and he offered to go as soon as he found out I was in the hospital.
Two weeks ago, I asked him if he wanted to do something next weekend and he said yes. I didn’t text him that week, nor the following week (because I had an anxious episode) but neither did he. Last week I texted him if he wanted to do something next week. He said he already had plans but he was free on Sunday. I told him I had plans for Sunday, but they weren’t confirmed, but that I would let him know. If not, maybe we could do something next week. I never got a reply to that so I don’t know if I should try and double text him, asking him if he wants to hang out. The last thing I want is to be clingy/needy, but I’m not sure if I gave him some cold vibes, that’s why he has been very distant. (by the way, I’m 29, he is turning 25 in a couple of months)
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So that Sunday you said you had unconfirmed plans, did that Sunday pass already or is it this Sunday? If it's this Sunday you can text if or if you're not available once you find out then if you're not then try to set another date. It seems like both of you guys are trying to set something up and it isn't just one sided so I see no problem with texting again you guys seem to like eachother so wuh duh problem
If that Sunday already passed well then he asked last so I guess it's your turn. Don't over think it, I k own when you're into someone sometimes you worry about fucking it up , which could then in result fuck it up because you're worried about fucking it up. Don't make much sense does it. All I'm saying is just as the mu fucka
Yeah! The Sunday just passed! (It was last weekend). I am just scared to text him (double text him) and then what if he ghosts me?
If he ghosts you then he ain't like yah ass anyway. You're just delaying the inevitable