I started talking to this girl on the 11th of July and we first met for a weekend on the 25th of June. We’ve been seeing each-other every other weekend that I’m off since then but there’s another dude she’s doing the same thing with. We’re not committed but any time I bring it up she says she’s not ready for a relationship, is enjoying not having to answer to anyone about where she is or what she’s doing, is terrified to get back into something so soon after her ex (she’ll be separated from her ex for 5 months by the end of August). It gives me a lot of anxiety and I’m starting to feel strung along/worn out and she says she feels like shit because she doesn’t know what she wants and knows that I already do which is her and wishes she was in a better headspace when we met so that she’d know for sure. Should I ask her if she’s ready at the two month mark of us actually seeing each-other in person or?
Should I ask this girl to make a decision after 2 months of talking/hooking up?
