Should I ask this girl to make a decision after 2 months of talking/hooking up?

[Anonymous]

I started talking to this girl on the 11th of July and we first met for a weekend on the 25th of June. We’ve been seeing each-other every other weekend that I’m off since then but there’s another dude she’s doing the same thing with. We’re not committed but any time I bring it up she says she’s not ready for a relationship, is enjoying not having to answer to anyone about where she is or what she’s doing, is terrified to get back into something so soon after her ex (she’ll be separated from her ex for 5 months by the end of August). It gives me a lot of anxiety and I’m starting to feel strung along/worn out and she says she feels like shit because she doesn’t know what she wants and knows that I already do which is her and wishes she was in a better headspace when we met so that she’d know for sure. Should I ask her if she’s ready at the two month mark of us actually seeing each-other in person or?

[Guy13]

Hard sales is for product not people. One can not hard sale relationship and force another to sign the dotted line. She can take her ass right out of that "room" dynamic.. I would laugh at you and if I was trying would try not to run off the road from my LOL eyes tearing up.

Just saying...

[Asker]

Yet you’re not offering any alternative 😅

[Guy13]

Exactly as you are not in a position to negotiate what has been removed from the Table (Serious Relationship). I would, however, state a firm position and mark a month end date on frig calendar. If "demand"... what I want is not Realized in a month-WALK !! She does not need to know your timeline but she does need to know you have a "Plan/Agenda" No Process Details shared as that would be a threat and vaginas turn into deserts when that happens. ;-)

[Asker]

It just boggles me how she can tell me she loves the way I treat her and doesn’t want it to stop but not know that she wants that all to herself.

[Guy13]

Timeline and Walk Away equals Man with Backbone and he mind Boggled... Phase II begins with Respect and soft eyes standing by a Man with Vision and Plan. SOLD...