Deciding to end things with my partner?

[Anonymous]

After years of giving this man chances we come and go out of eachothers life. For all the time I’ve known him he’s not given me a birthday present introduced me to his family. we have sex and he does not call much the following day and I’ve just kind of detached myself from it and now I’m not really fussed. I’ve told him if I told him once about how I feel it’s different but I’ve told him many times. I told him I like flowers not once has he got me flowers 😂 I’ve hinted many times and I even asked him as well when are you going to buy me something just to see what he says and he just keeps saying soon but it never happens. I don’t know any of his friends ( he don’t know any of mine too because I thought to myself why should I introduce my friends to him when he does not do anything for me or does the same). I told him I’m away with my family and I’ve decided to stay a few extra days so he can do what he wants as I can not be bothered anymore. I live alone and I’ve let him come over to mine numerous of times but not once have I gone to his he lives with his family. Please anyone give me advice and guide my on this situation what shall I do

[Flower7]

If you have more negative feelings toward him than positive, it’s best to get out of the relationship. So ending things is most likely a good decision in this situation. The fact that you’re even considering it is a sign that you’re not happy.

He does seem rather detached. After years of dating, it would have been normal to meet some of his friends or family by now. Then not speaking to you much and no romance…it’s just not a good combination. It seems to add up to him not being fully into the relationship.

[Asker]

Yeah exactly how I feel 🥺 I was really into the relationship at first putting a lot of effort in 3 years ago and then he came back I tried but he still can’t treat me right it’s just I’m thinking is it hard to be loved. A man should naturally buy flowers and want to do things for you am I right? Or

[Flower7]

Sounds like a lot of time has been wasted already. It’s best not to lose any more of your time waiting for him to change.

[Asker]

Thank you I really appreciate your opinion and advice 💗 hen just makes me feel
Guilty but I need to put my foot down and say enough is ennough x

[kylee2437]

Yeah when you start having to nag about your wants, that means it’s a dead end relationship and the only reason why he’s giving you those after the fact is for unnatural and insincere reasons. He’s literally giving you that stuff so you will shut up and not because he loves you

[Asker]

Yeah that’s facts. Probably also says love you and stuff just to string me aslong that stuff should just come natural. Girl I still haven’t received nothing so now I think it’s time to keep my mouth shut and tell him do what he wants..

I’ve told him I’m staying a few more days with my family. Also because I be watching dating shows he says to me what do you be seeing in them dating shows like wtf