I am a woman with a learning disability and have online dating experience. I don't mind men reading my profile. My profile is read by some men. I also read men's profiles and I didn't like one of them because he used the word nice guy. It seems like he is not a genuine good guy, but rather a fake good guy. Real good guys don't need to prove themselves. I saw more than one profile, but I only mentioned one. i also noticed that i had received some women that messaged me but i did look at their profile and read. i did block them there women USA. It was on one of the dating sites that is aimed at people with disabled and learning disabilities. Other times i don't see men reading my profile but just leave the message that are outside of my age range, 50+ year old men and yep i did blocked. I will blocked both women and men if they are not in my age range. What can I do to make sure men read my profile?
Formatting can help; giant blocks of text generally cause people to gloss over things. Instead try separating it it into distinct blocks that make sense with the flow of what you're say. You can also use a picture or two, but don't go crazy with that: if you fill it with pictures people will just see the pictures and scroll past the text.
But that only makes the people that were predisposed to reading more like to read. The people who don't actually care about knowing you in the first place, won't be reading no matter what you to.
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Not everyone is good at creating profiles. Some will use the nice guy trick... others just don't know what else to put on their so they just start adding stuff.
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In your headline or opening sentence, you say "If you want a good night kiss at the end of our first date, read my profile and I'll tell you how to make that happen."
I would advise you against trying to meet people for dating online.
I always put what's on my mind in my profile, what I'm thinking, what I'm feeling, and a hobby or two. If you do that, you're telling people about the REAL you. Put your thoughts, feelings, dreams, desires, whatever is on your mind. People like to learn about YOU, and that's the best way to do it.
And don't be afraid to go crazy with it. My profile is all over the place, and I don't care about weird people think it is. Their wacked-out opinions mean nothing to me!
Most people put boring stuff like age, sex, height, eye color, hair color, and what they are looking for. That's what talking is for! Hope this helped!
When I was on dating apps I used to have one or two good pictures (not edited) and I didn't have a bio. I still used to have a bunch of matches I feel like men were in some way attracted to the mystery and the fact that I did not reveal anything about myself.
People love looking through photos. Maybe you can upload a text stating you want them to read your profile.
Begin with: ''Important user information below'' (or similar). Best in the title line itself?
Older men and women just read it to help you out but more so from older men because some of us don't judge
If someone wants to they will.
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