Why do some girls downgrade themselves when going on a date?

[Anonymous]

A date is meant to be a time to enjoy and to get to know each other. Some girls behave all the time like the guy is about to eat them up. If he offers wine, they think that he is getting her drunk so that he can bed her easily. If he offers to drop her home, she thinks he will start stalking her. Just why be so paranoid?

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Are men to blame for such sorry state of affairs? Treat a lady with care and courtesy and she will repay you many times over. Treat her like a whore and you will soon be with one.

[Anonymous]

Not really. The women who have these problems typically have these problems because they simply do not choose quality men from the getgo.

It's the male equivalent of marrying a gold diggers and then not understanding why she doesn't make a good wife.

Believe me it is frustrating for good men to hear this stuff. Because we can't make these women make good decisions. We can only advise. And that only works if she's willing to listen😆 The smart choices at the end of the day she has to make, we can't do that for her.

[Wise4myage]

Well, these days, I think its normal for a girl to have those concerns.

[devilish-cutie]

Becasue many guys are actually predatory, they act disrespectful, want to touch you and kiss you without you wanting the same, either as preassure or they cantready you well

[kylee2437]

Isn’t it sad that us women have to worry about that because we have more than likely been in a situation already where a man took advantage?