They were never taught by a positive male role model what a healthy relationship is. So now they're completely uninterested in normal guys. In fact if you ever date a girl with a domestic abuse past she'll likely start drama just to try and egg you on because non abusive men bore her now. That's also because most domestic abuse cases have both people abusing each other, so she's probably attracting abusers because she herself abuses men. Those are a few reasons.
No one wants to be with someone who bores them. It is not about being toxic, but just finding someone you have chemistry with and change things up once in a while. Don't be a suckup and have fun.
because we’re animals who go for the best and the best mate usually has many people picking them, so they will be emotionally unavailable. Hence the confusion. They’re also choosing the best mate themselves or have many options to choose from.
That's a strong indicator that the woman in question isn't quite a woman yet, but still a girl, a child at that who likes to cause drama and stir the pot cause it's "fun and interesting"
Usually woman like this have daddy issues & grew up in an unstable environment. They may of even experienced some or many forms of trauma. They're a product of a dysfunctional environment as the mental patterns imprinted prove.
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Some can't help it I wish they would and some love the ups and downs!
Reading some comments on this post gives us another insight why so many men on this site are single. Seriously clueless.
I don't even like actual roller coasters. I go for Mr. Consistent
They were never taught by a positive male role model what a healthy relationship is. So now they're completely uninterested in normal guys. In fact if you ever date a girl with a domestic abuse past she'll likely start drama just to try and egg you on because non abusive men bore her now. That's also because most domestic abuse cases have both people abusing each other, so she's probably attracting abusers because she herself abuses men.
Those are a few reasons.
Trauma. Their father was inconsistent and unstable so they're just continuing the cycle. Healthy people won't tolerate such behavior.
It's all they know and they get bored when they're with a guy who treats them good and doesn't get upset at them for this and that.
because they have never met a nice man so they think men are all like that
No one wants to be with someone who bores them. It is not about being toxic, but just finding someone you have chemistry with and change things up once in a while. Don't be a suckup and have fun.
because we’re animals who go for the best and the best mate usually has many people picking them, so they will be emotionally unavailable. Hence the confusion. They’re also choosing the best mate themselves or have many options to choose from.
Usually because their fathers were no better men, and that is where most of us get our standards from.
That's a strong indicator that the woman in question isn't quite a woman yet, but still a girl, a child at that who likes to cause drama and stir the pot cause it's "fun and interesting"
Avoid them like the plague
women and drama better love story than twilight.
They like the drama that comes with it. They are usually insecure within themselves. It's a vicious cycle. It's a form of abuse/addiction
Because they're trigger the women sexual attraction and women love that. So they ignore that aspect straighten away untill something like that occurs.
Usually woman like this have daddy issues & grew up in an unstable environment. They may of even experienced some or many forms of trauma. They're a product of a dysfunctional environment as the mental patterns imprinted prove.
It's a challenge? I guess some women like being put through the ringer.
All those asshole men were once extremely nice, sweet, loving…
Such women must be reading dark Romance Novels lol
Because we date who resemble mostly our parents; although, I think women's have this angel complex. They think they can change the guy they like.
women who are afraid to be alone will be fine being a puppet or if a woman is using you