Why do men ask me to be a stay at home mom?

[sarah_young61]

I am a single mother and some of the guys in my dating pool have been asking to be a stay at home mom and that they want 4+ kids. I only have one kid and it’s hard enough doing it by yourself. I just think men assume since I have one that I raising by myself that I would be okay with raising more by myself. That is not that case and money is not worth the absent of a father. Also I don’t want to be controlled or end my career just to ask someone else for an allowance. I went to college I have two degrees I am successful in the educational field. I believe that both parents should raise their child’s not just the mother. I was to be with some that wants a healthy co-parent relationship where we split the household chores and share the responsibility of raising the kids equally. How can I attract more men that want this?

[sheenagwapa]

some men are just traditional, it could also be insecurity

[Iron_Man]

I’m not sure maybe you give out that vibe have you had discussions about it before

[sarah_young61]

What kinda vibe is that?

[Iron_Man]

Stay at home mom

[sarah_young61]

I’m not a stay at home mom though and I never brag about wanting to be one

[Iron_Man]

I don’t know then why do they want you to be because you already have a kid

[BigDog1989]

I don't want kids at all

[sarah_young61]

I never wanted kids I just happen to have one and I accepted it and it doing the best I can to give her a great and healthy childhood.

[BigDog1989]

If you never wanted kids, you wouldn't have had unprotected sex

[sarah_young61]

Blah blah blah should of, could of, would of. It always the judge mental person saying that dumb shit.

[BigDog1989]

I mean, unless you were raped.. I kind of have a point

[sarah_young61]

What is the point in saying that? It’s not going change anything so it’s dumb

[BigDog1989]

Because you asked?