Do you have married siblings? Why my siblings are all married except for me? 😞?

[Sugar100]

I’m turning 25 this year and I’m the youngest but my siblings are all same age like 30-36. They got married fast at age 22-23. They have perfect big house, kids, partner daily with them. I’m not a Party girl, I’m a serious settle down women, but I don't know why god made siblings be married have perfect life fast and me alone. My brother married girlfriend when she was 26. Next year I’ll be 26. I live alone in a studio and see boyfriend one time a week on our day off. I desire live with a guy, have baby next year, but no guy is proposing me, racing to Ask to be my boyfriend meet family, boyfriend wants stay live with mom pay her rent. I have my own small business & years go by & im not settled down. I urge now at 25 be 24/7 with a man, do adult things. I don’t want have that perfect life til age 30-35. I’m ready now. But it’s hard see holidays all siblings with babies & husband living blissful life and me alone no baby no marriage no home. 😔I feel stupid being alone when everyone is married. Cuz only not serious girls are not married. I’m independent & no guy finds it attractive me shopping for groceries alone, or living alone paying my own stuff.

[BCRanger10]

My older brother is engaged, younger sister is married with a kid, and my youngest sister is single to my knowledge. I was the first one to get married.

I understand the frustration and the desire. You really ought not to let it overwhelm and consume you though, especially if you are a person of faith, as I assume you are. Sometimes, it happens at times and in circumstances that are totally unexpected. And you might not even develop that connection with a man until well after you meet him.

[RobT312]

My siblings have been married for a few years now and have kids. It doesn’t bother me.
im Finally getting married this year and I do want kids, it just took me longer than them. It’s not a race, you are still young. Enjoy life and wait for the right partner. There are so many people that get married to the wrong person because they rushed it.

[Sugar100]

It’s not fair god chose me to not have happy life he wants me to suffer and have siblings a guy that married them fast. I don't know y god didn’t want me also have their perfect life but instead he’s making me be alone at this age miserable

[RobT312]

Be patient... you are young and will get what you want

[Sugar100]

I’m not young, I’m settled down now in life empty, I’m ready now. I don't know y god is making huge delay wen I’m ready now at 25.

[RobT312]

Sounds like you need to see your boyfriend more than once a week then !

[Sugar100]

How will seeing himmmore than once a week change anything?

[RobT312]

You need to progress your relationship if u want to get married

[Sugar100]

We progress too slow

[RobT312]

Exactly... push it along faster... how long have u been dating?

[Apulu_Imback]

Yes many of my cousins are married. The closest one to me is engaged recently and she will be married after 2 years.

[wingattebaby16]

2 of my 3 older sisters (step) are married.

both of my younger sisters are not married.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

All of my brothers are married and have one or two kids. I’m the only brother who isn’t married or have kids but I’m also the youngest. It doesn’t bother me

[Sugar100]

But it’s weird like why all the siblings are married except for me? Why they get perfect dream life and I don’t deserve that? Y god chose me to not have that life and he said only they can have that life? I’m confused? I’m a serious girl and no one is rushing to marry me?

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

It could be because plenty of factors but mainly I don’t know your life. So I can’t truly answer these questions

[Sugar100]

Like all their dreams come true fast when they want and god don’t give me that life I don't know y he wants me miserable. U can’t tell a guy I want marry lol that’s stupid. God made my siblings marry fast have easy life and he chose me to suffer

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

I’m not subscribing member of any Christian/ Jewish or Muslim religion so I’m not sure if I can assist with that. Sometimes it’s just timing and meeting the right person

[Anonymous]

chill... you're only 25... what exactly is your rush? it's also not a good time to get married and have a house and kids in this economy. so count your blessings. not everything is perfect, just what they share with you seems that way.

[Sugar100]

My siblings married at 22-23 . Why u r telling me to chill? My ssiter in law got married at my age.

[Sugar100]

I’m not a teenager I’m 25. I’m not party girl wanting be single forver. I’m empty. My dream isn’t like alone. My dream is live with a partner like all gfs bfs do. U wake up happy with. Butterflies daily fullfilled following boyfriend. I don’t want marry I would at least like now live with a boyfriend. It’s beautiful live with a boyfriend , share life togeher

[Opinion Owner]

because it's not a race... not everyone is the same and not everyone HAS to get married at a certain age. stop comparing yourself to others. are you putting yourself out there to accomplish these things?

[MTC29]

I have one sister. She has been married to a wonderful man for 33 years and they have two great kids: my niece and nephew.

[clampfan101]

My sister found an absolutely perfect husband for her who’s an absolutely perfect brother/son in law for the rest of us. And she found him online. How on earth did she get that lucky? I can’t find a girlfriend anywhere.

[exitseven]

Getting married just for he sake of getting married is not a good idea It will not end well. Thee things run on their own schedule./

[moonpie89]

I have one sister that's married and one that's divorced. The others are dating and or are single. I think it's better to wait

[serious]

Yes one younger brother and he is married.

[TrillXHippy]

I have an older brother that is married