Why does he make going out so difficult and hard to decide?

[Anonymous]

Guy I’ve been seeing is great in so many ways. Attentive when we are together, great listener, funny, etc.

However, getting him to meet up is a whole another thing. He’s rarely excited when I propose a date, starts this whole “ I will let you know, yeah that should be good”. He doesn’t confirm until literally hours before the meeting.

I’m the kind of person who likes to know in advance and I prefer honesty. If he’s seeing someone else who’s his priority, I would like to know.

What do you think this behavior stems from?

[Marcuslrh]

Probably just doesn't want to get let down, so I'm more spontaneous like let's do something now so he leaves it till last minute when he knows he is free I hate having plans for say next week I could be in another country by then😂I get a lot of ladies like to have the week planned but a lot of guys dont work that way we wake up and decide.

[ProbablyClueless]

I don't think he's seeing anyone else, based on that description. He's probably just someone who really sucks at making plans.

[exitseven]

I never thought that he had something else going on but it is possible. More likely he is someone that does not like to go out and do stuff.