Hell no…. There were no conditions to the first date. If the guy asked the girl out he should pay and if she asked him out she should pay asking nothing in return.
No, that's pretty rude. Just split the bill in the first date.
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Nah. He's already wasted enough time on her why does he want to waste anymore collecting some ridiculously perceived debt. He needs to choose his dates better.
I mean, yes I agree it’s unfortunate. But, it’s going to be like that sometimes. And there’s no need to throw a fit because your expectations were too high.
Calling a woman names isn’t going to get you anywhere. No wonder you’re not in a successful and healthy relationship yet. You get upset when things don’t go your way.
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Only if he is some pissed off asshole. Which is very possible since there won’t be a second date.
No. Why should she? And why would he be so rude as to ask for it back?
no just treat it like gambling you win some you lose some
To be fair, it should be a "split the bill" if the first date is a dud.
Hell no…. There were no conditions to the first date. If the guy asked the girl out he should pay and if she asked him out she should pay asking nothing in return.
No. He's a dummy for even offering to pay in the 1st place.
You never pay for a woman knowing she's most likely not going to be your girlfriend by the end of the week.
no. do either of you get your time back? nope. same with money. you invested, it didn't go well, so move on.
It’s not the girl’s fault the guy chose to pay for the whole date.
Also, this is why women prefer to pay for themselves because they know how y’all’s mind goes if you pay for the whole thing. They know your tricks.
Sex for a paid meal? I'm here being vigilant just to not be used for a free meal (foodie call).
@sasha0426 when i pay on someone, it ain't a trick, it's an act of kindness that's all...
@Unit1 insurely don't expect sex cause i paid for a meal, even if she wants to, i'll refuse because i prefer sex after marriage...
Nope ofc not...
He invited her so he pays and it's an act of goodness! Wether she wants a second date or not, he did what must be done!
Always half it. Or pay for yourself. Never expect a refund 😂
No, that's pretty rude. Just split the bill in the first date.
Nah. He's already wasted enough time on her why does he want to waste anymore collecting some ridiculously perceived debt. He needs to choose his dates better.
Lol tf I'm about my money too but it's just a date who cares if she don't wanna continue imma go move to the next. Another whack female avoided
Because she’s not interested in you? 🤣 I can see why.
@Sasha0426 if she ain't. into me she get blocked lol
Which is fair but how is she whack as you call her?
@Sasha0426 cause she wasted my time nit being onto me u should automatically be into me so it makes her whack for wasting my time.
That’s not how the real world goes.
I mean, yes I agree it’s unfortunate. But, it’s going to be like that sometimes. And there’s no need to throw a fit because your expectations were too high.
@Sasha0426 that's how my world goes
@Sasha0426 she's blocked what fit she's outta my life.
Calling a woman names isn’t going to get you anywhere. No wonder you’re not in a successful and healthy relationship yet. You get upset when things don’t go your way.
Fine if you block a woman if she’s not interested in you but calling her names like whack and getting upset, no woman will want to be with you.
I mean, would you want them to lie to you and lead you on? Will that be better for you?
@Sasha0426 as long as I get a nut idc lol
And there it is. You’re nothing but a man child.
@Sasha0426 wait... u think I care what u think? Hahhhahhahahahq!!!
No, but you’re definitely not a grown ass man. More like a teenager still in high school that’ll never grow up.
@Sasha0426 lol good im. forever young
Should… maybe. But that’s got to be awkward asking if back. I sometimes want to give money back but that’s weird too
Unfortunately it doesn't work that way.
So don't be a sucka.
Hahaha that's some chump bum shit. He should just get on with his life and forget about it
No. Don't be cheap. You don't take a girl out keeping a tab
It's up to the girl. I wouldn't tho. He asked me out. Not my fault I didn't like him 🤷♀️
Of course. But I don’t pay for the first date so I don’t gotta worry about this. If I pay, I expect something in return.
She should just give him the customary first date BJ and be done with it.