Mutual friend asking boyfriend for too many favors, is this overeacting?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I are friends with the same girl but I knew her first and longer. I don’t know their friendship but from what I’ve been told from both side they aren’t that close. They’ve hung out before him and I got together so I might can understand why she does this. When we started dating they became closer and she told someone she was only friends with friends because I was dating him. Every now and then she calls him and ask for favors and invites him out without me. It could be to a restaurant, her house, anywhere. Or she’ll ask if he can bring her food, change her tire or car battery. I don’t know why but his response most times is no or some excuse but he has done some of it. I don’t see a problem with it since they are friends but I just know if I was doing the same thing to her boyfriend she would not be okay with it. In fact, she doesn’t like me having communication with her boyfriends.

Updates

7 mo

*she was only friends with HIM

[RoseySarah]

Not overthinking your very right about her!

This is her trying to date him cause you like him! She is getting close to him hoping he will pick her and cheat some day!

Don't know if you have seen her so this before but it is very toxic behavior!

So if you two fight he will rush to her and she will be there for him and hopefully get him instead of you ending up with your boyfriend!

She is either being way to needy or planning something! Huge reason why you would never talk or meet her bfs much!

Talk to your boyfriend about it!