Any advice for this single girl?

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Im 22 and have never been on a date or kissed someone, I don’t know how to get out there and date. I've been told I’m pretty and ill find someone but with no experience under my belt I really don’t know what I can do.

Raaj4you · Accepted Answer

Socialize and hangout with more people.

If you are serious about finding a boyfriend then learn to be nice, respectful and humble towards men.

Avoid talking about serious topics like religion, feminism, patriarchy, etc. Talk about hobbies, likes, dislikes, career goals, financial planning, family planning, how to, when to create a family and having kids.

From my personal experience, all I have seen is egoistic, feminist, rude, arrogant, disrespectful and short tempered girls/ women in my whole life.

If you follow all these things then definitely you will find a nice guy quickly. I am sure you will be ahead of others when it comes to creating boyfriend girlfriend relationship leading to wedding. Bad girls will be jealous of your life.

Most important, If you have a small fight with your boyfriend, don't ghost him. Call him and talk to him again. This will make you more mature and relationship with your boyfriend more stronger.

If you don't follow what I have said then you will remain single for a long time. Bad girls with bad qualities and bad upbringing will never find good guys.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Ok so I’m not trying to be harsh here but just exactly who told you you were pretty? Friends? Family? You don’t have to be the prettiest girl alive to meet someone but it does help your chances. So my other question is have men ever approached you? If not then chances are your looks are somewhat ok. But you also have to think about your standards as well. Most women think they’re all that do they expect a man who’s all that when they really aren’t so they don’t attract the men that they think they should be attracting.

Rei13 · Accepted Answer

You’re still pretty young. The best thing to do is grow your social circle. Make more friends and get out of your comfort zone. I met a friend when she worked at a game store and I was a customer, it ended up leading to me meeting a ton of other people I wouldn’t have otherwise as I’m more introverted and she is an extrovert. Probably wouldn’t have met my current boyfriend if not for her even if it was indirectly. If you’re having trouble meeting people do meetups, find a hobby that has other people, take classes, etc. I have met boyfriends through college, a dating app, work and through my friendship group. I always got confused on how relationships start but when it was with someone I befriended first we would spend all of our time together and it just kind of happened naturally.

KBird · Accepted Answer

I honestly found online dating helped me gain confidence. It can be a bit sketchy, and its like trying to find a needle in a haystack, but most of the dates I went on were public, and only lasted the first date. But, the first dates helped me gain the confidence I needed when finding potential partners in the 'real world'. If you do decide to go with online, I would say use trusted sites, and always ask for social media before meeting.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Online dating, or ask a friend to set you up with a guy, and then the two of you do a double date. That creates very low expectations.

RavVid · Answer

With some girls you get the sense they'll call the cops if you say hi.

Other girls give the impression not only you can say hi but have a joke and a chat. Maybe it'll go further and maybe not but they are available as guy termed it to me.

To look approachable/available you need to be seen to be social. Not with a phalanx of girls around you.

If you are smiling and interacting you are showing social skills and it is easier for me to approach you. if I say Hi and you smile back than I will try to go further if I like you. That first 5 seconds can be very determinant.

You may not like that guy but another that you will like might see the interaction and try his hand.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Seems to be the question everyone has these days. If you’re looking for hookups there are no shortages, but if you’re looking for something a little more, it can be a challenge to find yourself in a position to meet new people. Seek out social events and don’t be afraid to smile or approach people you find attractive. I don’t know about women, but most single guys polled won’t approach women. So if you make the first move you may have more luck than you may think.

abc3643 · Answer

Tell us your situation. That means:
1. Where (abouts) do you live? The more we know, the better.
2. Do you live alone, with parents, with one or more roomates?
3. Are you in college/university or do you work or?
4. Do you have your own vehicle?
5. What interests or hobbies do you have?
6. If you never had to worry about money for the rest of your life and so didn''t need to work, what would you do with your time?

HelpfulWoman · Answer

"never" girl it's 6 years if we take the uk's 16 age of consent.
According to incels, you just have to exist and you'll get plenty of dick.
But in seriousness, stop focusing on it. That's how you advertise you're easy to manipulate and desperate. No one of quality cares about lack of experience, and no one of quality go to the desperate ones.

Flatmanlewis · Answer

Go grab onto a few hobbies. You start interacting with the world and you’ll just start making connections. Go figure out something you want to learn more about: horses, SCUBA, dogs, hiking, whatever. You’ll start to meet people with a common interest.

DextroShade · Answer

If you are a pretty 22 year-old you have definitely been approached by dudes, all you have to do is say yes. More importantly, as a woman you shouldn't be trying to get "experience" because that really just means a higher body count which will make it harder for you to pair-bond with a man. So I would recommend you be realistic about your standards and date with the intention of a serious relationship leading to marriage.

Anonymous · Answer

It's completely normal to feel this way, and there's no set timeline for dating or experiencing your first kiss. To get started, try joining social events, online dating apps, or pursuing hobbies you enjoy to meet new people. Focus on building your self-confidence and don't rush the process. Remember, everyone's journey is different, and the right person will appreciate you for who you are.

Nikki1989 · Answer

It is not what it used to be like but some men still approach. You just have to get out and socialize as much as possible.

HippoDino · Answer

Its hard to find someone if you don't look. Get on some dating sites or go to bars, as long as you can hold a conversation I'm sure you will be fine. Inexperience doesn't really matter you will find someone who loves you for who you are eventually.

Sonorous · Answer

Well most people find love in those spaces where they consistently show up. Places like school & work & anything else.

Staximus · Answer

Go some place where people hang out who are into the same kind of stuff you are, make some new friends, ask your friends if they know any good guys, go take a class about something you are interested in, etc.

Anonymous · Answer

Go and explore babe. Don't worry I'm single too nowadays 😏

swettannie · Answer

well, to begin with, what kind of men do you want to date?

ren1989 · Answer

Try speed dating. I've done it and it's a lot of fun!

Anonymous · Answer

You are an incel right now just lower your standards, or you will be an incel forever

Pegases · Answer

Why do you think you're single?

Nifrayu · Answer

When you find a guy you like, ask him out.

Jaxgirly · Answer

Girly same I have no idea and I need help 😅

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