Where are you supposed to take women out for a date nowadays?

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not that I care cause to me dating is a waste of time and money. I can use that amount of money dudes spend dating going to the strip clubs and probably to pay a massause to give me the happy ending.

till then I found this list on my wall in Twitter

Where are you supposed to take women out for a date nowadays?

and now I'm curious since almost all my male friends and relatives usually take women to these places

qqqqq0000 · Accepted Answer

I saw the exact same list recently but it said its where you *should* go on a date🤔 but the one on your post isn't true, those are good places to go to.. but for your other post, yeah you can always go to strip clubs and hook up with random women, if thats what you want. People go on dates to get to know someone, with a goal of being in a long term relationship, marriage, building a life and making a family. Strip clubs and real dates have different offers. If you dont like risking wasting time and money on dates, no one’s stopping you from going to strip clubs for the rest of your life. I just know some guys that dont want to be that 40 year old single man in clubs and bars filled with 20 year olds. Thats why they want to date and have real relationships. Thats why they risk wasting time and money, because without risking it, you are choosing the other path.

XHopelessRomanticX · Accepted Answer

I always grew up thinking Cheesecake Factory was classy, what’s wrong with Cheesecake Factory? Ice cream dates WHAT? Ice cream dates are so cute! Movies or bowling?
What kind of women are you guys talking to because I don’t know any woman who would say “no” to any or all these places?

Granted, some of these I wouldn’t want to go to due to personal/religious reasons. But goodness gracious if there really are girls like this just take them to Home Depot so they can build new personalities.

Nik1hil · Accepted Answer

Dude, if you can getting lists like this these women are not even worth dating..

There are 2 types of women..

One you shouldn't date, the kind of women who want things for you for themselves, fancy, expensive dates and princess treatment..

Second type of women will want you to put things in relationship and jot put things in her.. She won't ask for stuff, but ask for sacrifices and want to start a family with you.. That's the kind of women you want to pursue..

Tell her, you are interested in settling in 6 months... If she isn't interest. Let that Cow Go..

If she stays you can take 2 year's of dating time.. Not necessary for 6 months..

Don't legally marry, settle down. Commit and exchange ring.. Everyone should know, she is your girl.. Yet, Divorce shouldn't be able to target you.

SotiCoto · Accepted Answer

Important distinction here: Do you already know her.
If yes, the best place is probably just somewhere you're both comfortable going. Casually. Doesn't matter where it is, as long as you both want to go there.
If no... why? Doesn't that mean you're trying to date a stranger? And if she expects you to take her somewhere fancy, that presumably means she is expecting you to be some sort of fairytail prince and is setting herself up for disappointment.

Random fact: Last potential romance interest I first met in a graveyard. Not even joking. I just opted for the graveyard because I knew it would be quiet... which makes conversation easier.

kylee2437 · Answer

This is no worse than a man equally saying that dating is a waste of time. And then people wonder why relationships are a rarity now. Combination of awful mindsets

coachTanthony · Answer

Social media has elevated the few weirdo women who are trying to speak for the majority of women. We all know most women would be just fine with the cheesecake factory. I'll do a poll.

Radiate143 · Answer

Coffee and ice cream dates.. I am SO there. I love waffles 🧇 especially with caramel sauce. Cheesecake is awesome so... what's wrong with that.

Bowling is SO MUCH fun but not for a first date. Not going to any guy's house. I don't care if you are a 5-star chef. Not falling for that sleazy shit. Also, why would I go in a long drive with a dude when there are psycho kollers lurking about when you least expect it. That's just prudent.

I am athletic but don't care for sports events so don't take me to a game. Boring.

Chipotle is to cafeteria like so I wouldn't really like that on a date. If you are going to take me for Italian, do not take me to a chain.

Anyway, just gleaning the list.

Sodomite · Answer

Why the hell would any man take a woman on a date when they can just tie her up at home and pound her senseless? But if you're really desperate, why not take your cunt slave to a BDSM club? Let her experience some real pleasure, like being whipped until her pussy lips swell with pain. And don't forget to take videos while she screams and begs for mercy! Now that's what I call a proper fucking date!

silvermoon84 · Answer

I mean, I agree with not going to a guy’s house on a first date, but for safety reasons (especially dating app guys... you don’t know if they’re rapists or psycho killers). I agree about fast food chains because I hate fast food and I try to avoid eating it. The rest of this list basically sounds like the trash taking itself out. I’m sorry for men about spoiled women like this.

Also, I prefer Starbucks coffee dates and ice cream dates!

Slingblade1126 · Answer

Weird list. Every date I've went on ended at a bar, hell, it usually started at a bar! I would tell them, "eat all the wings you can! It's 50 cent wing night and don't worry about gaining weight, you lost that battle two cheeseburgers ago". And of course I'd make sure to tell them not to drink too much, 'cause they'll probably have to drive me home. They loved it!

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Lately, I may suggest grabbing a hot drink or something from the juice bar and going for a walk along the lakeshore. Maybe have a seat in the park and chat. If everything goes well, see if she wants to do something else, or plan to see each other again.

Ultimately, I let her decide where she wants to meet so she feels safe and comfortable. I don't want her to feel uneasy about getting together.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Most of my first dates have been wherever they took me, and a great many of them have been places on that list. I'm not sure who these women are that are being so picky about where they're going. The ones who have approached me have been quite easy going.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Well there's one good place you can take her... Out of this world!.. JK.. Most women would be fine with those on a first date.. Only entitled women who think that just because they spent time looking good, some guy she hasn't even so much as held hands with, should treat her like supreme royalty.. These are the type of women who would love to see men kill each other over her affection in the past..

IslaTheWitch · Answer

A date is about spending time together and getting to know each other. I would go to a movie theatre, on walks or hikes, a museum maybe. It depends on whom I'm dating.

I also don't believe it's a man's responsibility to pay for a date.

Dinklex3 · Answer

I mean.. As you said. Most of your friends and relatives take dates to those places. So obviously the list is just another bullshit list from Twitter. That’s all.

Apple1996 · Answer

No food dates since those are the worst. Best to just take a walk in the park. Maybe a painting class, swimming/to the beach. I'd accept the coffee date but everything else on that list is not good

BourbonAndBacon · Answer

Take them wherever you want. If they don't like what you like then they aren't for you. You don't need to adjust what you like for them. You need to find someone who's values and interests are similar to yours

letthefire80 · Answer

Personally, if I like him, anyplace but museums or performances give us a shared experience to talk about in-depth to really know each other

Anemone978 · Answer

They all sound like good dates so I don't know who these girls are.. lol  I do love long car rides at night but maybe not on the first date xD

Selliebeanz · Answer

I don’t care I’ll go anywhere with someone I enjoy. Why does the location matter?

SixFootSexy · Answer

Dating in 2023

nonyabeez-wax · Answer

If you find a woman that won't go to waffle house with you, she's not worth the amount you would spend on your meal at waffle house...

provokeesmokee · Answer

So you're gonna believe a single FB post that reads like a rant over the demonstrated reality of many of your real life friends and family?

WhiteSandyBeach · Answer

Cook for her. You will set yourself apart from the lemmings at Applebee's.

Paris13 · Answer

Coffee or a Drink at the Pub. Just to See if Any Chemistry for a Second One, hun. xxoo

exitseven · Answer

Anyone that has a problem with going on a date to any of these places (except maybe the hookah bar) is not worth my trouble.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I do not care what the list says. The first two are coffee or other simple things. That weeds out the food wh*res. Then I'll take her to Pelican Hill or somewhere else nice.

love_conquers_lust · Answer

Hahaha. 7) Your house. That should be on the list five more times. 6, 7, 16, 20, 22, 24 are the only ones. The rest are fine.

shades777 · Answer

these are women that are interested in relationships, these are women that want to use man for clout, vanity, and meal tickets.

Sparkie460 · Answer

I would find out what our mutual interests are and take it from there

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

GYM? CHURCH? What kind of hippopotamus whores made this list?

Billlewis · Answer

Oh my goodness... what a badass...

Yannae · Answer

That person with that list is single, isn't she?

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