Would you find this cute if your significant other was a clinger like this (especially during the early stages)?

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Lol its a bit much but shit ig its better they want you than not 🤣 I can be a spam texter but I wouldn’t dare blow his phone up like this unless we’re at least engaged 😂🤷‍♀️ And if the guy sent me a long list like this, it better not be more than like once a month lol. I ain't tryna read all that. At least voice record it  #FeelFreeToList #HowToLoseAGuy

magiusX26 · Accepted Answer

yes and no. that feeling of being wanted, yes. overly done, it comes across as disingenuous, especially the word love so early in as we dont know each other that well yet and could be "love bombing". also would become suffocating fast. this also tends towards causing more psycological damage later on if you split as well as can set a goal for the one doing it that they an not maintain that level of enthusiasm and desire for that person as time moves forward (the reciever may become expectant of this high level of energy as a constant throughout the relationship) . the post break up could have the giver feeling like a fool for declaring all that and the reviever could name call giver with things like "liar", "lead me on", "played me", etc. that is not even taking into account how the reciever may manipulate the giver into acting this way.

in short, though it looks good and nice, it is actually unhealthy to do this.

DJB72 · Accepted Answer

I'd probably move, change my number and my name. Some of those are the things of nightmares

RoseySarah · Answer

Lmao id do it as a joke 🤪🤣. That or if I know he is ignoring me 😔. Really not much need to go that far. I'd say red flag if she was seriously texting that much! So funny ty

AviatorTom · Answer

That's over the top. If she sent me that after only a few dates, I'd wonder if she has the right guy. If she sent that and we're in a relationship, I'd wonder what she just smoked.

Oliverlogan263 · Answer

Mannn, that girl is cray cray if you ever seen or hollered at one! I would've ditched her too after all those crazy messages. No way I'd wanna be with someone that clingy and obsessive, especially so early on. What's with all those weird nicknames too? Boywife? Panty sniffer? Sheep fucker? Who wants their girl calling them that? And spamming my phone with a novel-length text of nonsense? No thanks. Some of those were kinda funny I guess but way too much. She clearly has issues. I wouldn't wanna be her "life support" either, geez. I need space in a relationship, not someone smothering me 24/7. Plus she was insulting him too like "simp" and stuff, not cool. Good for that guy for getting out when he did. A few cute nicknames is one thing but that chick is on another level. Yikes! I'd run too. Clingy girls are the worst, even if they mean well. Let a guy breathe, you know? This proved why too much is definitely not a good thing.

Anpu23 · Answer

I run a company, on the board of directors for a second and work as an independent contractor for a third. Someone expecting my attention to that level is just annoying. It would be a big red flag for me. And I'd break up with her so fast it would make your head spin. I'd also be afraid that she'd turn into a stalker after I break up with her.

mandyfire98 · Answer

That would make me want to drop them and then drive me to do drugs. That's straight up awful.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

I would be more inclined to take them to a priest for an exorcism. This is way too much if she is trying to be quirky. If it is from a serious point, reiterating my first sentence.

DubiousIntentions · Answer

Wonder how long they will keep that up before they break up? More interesting would be what would they be saying AFTER the break up? 🤔

electromagnetic · Answer

That’s from last week when I took a weekend work trip 😆 wasn’t even gone 2 days Any more clingy and I’d lose my mind honestly whoever that is is nuts

NathanDavis · Answer

for some reason, I thought it was just one picture and thought... "well, some girls are just silly and joke like that"

but then I kept scrolling down forever, lmfao... and thought I would not be surprised if the guy is tied up in her basement... and she's texting back herself from his phone, lmfao...

RavVid · Answer

Let me put it this way, I couldn't read all the way through. Calling me boywife was a big mistake. Huge. Partly recovered by liege but it really needed to be liege lord after boywife. Girlcock? Pantysniffer?

I have experienced a woman texting me 300 times between 2 am and 3 am. Not up for that

modeunae · Answer

This is just all fucking... I don' even know, man. It's strange. She can do that when we're in love, but if we're getting to know each other-- that's weird.

Also, a lot of those names are terrible names to call a man. 'My possessive puppy'? 'My collared fembussy'? 'My girlcock enjoyer.'? This girl is just weird. If she were cute, I'd fuck her. But after that?

Nah. Nothing more and I'd tell her why.

Anonymous · Answer

Very relatable for me lol... might be an unpopular opinion but I love it Really flattering to know she put in so much effort for me lol

molonski2 · Answer

No , that I would really really hate , its just too much , and I'd be far too skeptical of the agenda , or if they were genuinely like that , so pathetic.

MiddleAgedClimbee · Answer

This is another reason. I'm glad I'm not dating in this day and age of messaging. This would drive me Batshit crazy. The relationship would not last.

syncheart · Answer

I gotta say that I've been online for 21 years. A lot of those years I have talked to girls. Had just one online "girlfriend". Never ever ever have I seen or experienced anything like this!

Joshydavid25 · Answer

If it was much shorter and her just being silly.. I would find it endearing.. But that... Nah, and it seems like even where it was supposed to end there was more.. Must have her the good stuff and she went psycho..

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

I better know her well enough to know that she's being obnoxious as a joke, because if I thought she was serious she'da been blocked on page 2

Simslover92 · Answer

Damn you found my text messages lol no but seriously that's a bit much. I think I'm clingy when it comes to text messages but not nearly that bad.

AaronKrieger · Answer

I would mute them because that is annoying 😅 I have muted other people for far less

Anonymous · Answer

not gonna lie, i'd be extremely annoyed. like extremely. might even block them until they shut up. that is some serious love bombing and probably a toxic person.

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