At what age is it weird for a woman to have not been married or is still single?

[KatiaK_1996]

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5 mo

Thanks guys. I’m worried cuz I’ve been single for years and I’m late 20s.

[glennos89]

You have to understand that every guy prefers a woman that hasn't been married yet and if possible is even still virgin. So it's not weird at all but a blessing instead (from a guys perspective)


Marriages are a thing of the past anyways

In current times more and more men aren't willing to marry anymore because divorces always end up in a guy losing pretty much everything they have worked so hard for all those years. They lose there wife, kids and 50% of all money and material related stuff...

While for guys there are 0 benefits in being married to a woman compared to having a normal relationship with that same woman. Absolutely 0 benefits. The only benefit that was ever there for married guys was the fact that you get to keep that woman for a lifetime.

But nowerdays your wife will cheat on you and when you sign for a divorce she will take not only the children but she still gets 50% of everything you own and if that wasn't bad enough already... She is also going to let you pay child-support.. 🤯🤯🤯

Only dumb guys will be willing to marry a woman these days because marriage is a disaster waiting to happen from a guys perspective nothing else 🤷‍♂️

[sawno]

Lets answer a different question thats more relevant, what time is the best time for women to get a partner? While they are considered most fertile and its not a rush to get kids. Thats in her 20's and then after 35 fertility really drops. So the goal for girls is to get a good guy in her 20's who can provide for her. While the goal for a guy in his 20's tends to be to get established since girls prefer older men and men prefer younger women. So right now you are still near your prime and you should make the most of it.

[Cynicaldreamer]

There isn't one...

Contrary to what society and social media portray, nowadays both genders, male and female, are single for as long as they want and aren't as judged for it... and most don't care if we're really being honest! The only people that really worry or stress over your age in terms of being single is usually YOU.

I'm 38 and being single nearly 15 now- ask me if anyone judges or thinks I'm weird-

Spoiler: No. I've even had married couples tell me how jealous they are that I can do what I want, when I want and live such a chill life, LOL.

[Vesuvius87]

I'm 36 and still both childless and single. I just have no luck yet.

[KatiaK_1996]

Do you listen to any podcasts? Honestly Dateology coach has changed my life.

[Vesuvius87]

Nope. How would that help me a man to get married to?

[Vesuvius87]

**help me find

[Avicenna]

There is no longer any age in which a woman would be considered a "spinster". Do what you want to do.

[ZackBan]

Depending on who you ask the answer could be between 7 and 100 years old.

This is entirely subjective and cultural.

Meaning you have NOTHING to worry about being a late bloomer.

That being said. If you feel like you want to settle down but seem to only attract those who don't, you need to reassess your life, your choices, your type in men (even if it's hard to break old habbits) and to have a more mature set of expectations without going overboard into desperation

[Flatmanlewis]

I don’t think that’s the case at all. People have different lives. Maybe, depending on her circumstances, she simply wasn’t in a position to settle down yet. Maybe she was in a long term relationship and wasted too many years before getting out of it. Maybe, she just hadn’t met the right guy. I think this would be more of a ‘what have you been doing with your life’ type of concern than a raw “why weren’t you ever married” question.

[DreamCrescent]

there isn't one. I'll tell you the truth, people would be low key jealous of her availability and carefreeness regardless of her age

[Guido]

The trend is getting married later in life. Each generation is getting later and some never getting married. That's not to say they are not in a committed relationship, just never married.

[RavVid]

As many wait till 30+ I think you would have to consider 40+ to be a decision to not marry/remain single. Whether that is weird or a consequence of earlier life decisions I won't comment on.

[BoopBoopBeep]

It's weird that you put your sock and shoe on one foot before doing the other foot... at the end of the day I don't actually care though.

[DextroShade]

To quote Kevin Samuels (RIP):

"If you are over 30 and you are not married, you are leftover women. You are what is left. Men know there is likely something wrong with you."

[KatiaK_1996]

He actually said 35…

[DextroShade]

My mistake.

[Crankor]

People are too crazy to settle down with these days. It's not weird. It's weirder too see people together for no real reason of genuine interest or people who don't even know that relationships require constant effort

[AmeerX]

My honest opinion. Girls have trust issues when they are above a certain age. Very few girls actually want a relationship. They become more and more about independence, living the dream life and so on.

[HighValue]

Once she is past 30 she will have significantly less quality options, so it is best to find someone before then.

[Joshydavid25]

Nowadays, most people don't blink an eye if you are single at a later age.. My mother is 60 and still single.. Never been married in fact.. You're fine..

[Ironic_Method]

I don't think any age is weird. It's hard to find someone you mesh with and many people settle for someone just to avoid being single. Being single can be pretty awesome, too.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Nowadays it isn’t weird at all & times have changed.

[Sharkstealth]

Even if females show interest in me now I run.

A guy in the gym said to me the other day that i don't want a woman anyways based on his experience in his relationship.

[ConnerM]

It's never weird. Not everyone grows or finds their person at the same pace

[Anonymous]

Depends who you ask. Some would say it's already weird for you. But do you really want to live your life by someone else's view for your life.

[Wood3nWhal3]

I don't know but you can call me the reason you never find out

[balyai]

Doesn't matter. It's her life. Why is it weird if she's not married?

[slatyb]

Why would it be weird at any age?