I am a 25 year old male virgin, can I still lose it to someone near my age?

[Gobzapper]

Due to multitudes of events, I haven’t lost it yet. It’s made dating very awkward and I’m worried I won’t be able to lose it to a woman near my age (I’ll have to go older).

Should I keep trying for women near my age?

[Anonymous]

You're a 25-year-old virgin. Mate, that's like being a rare, unopened action figure – some collectors would go mad for that! You're not just any bloke; you're limited edition!

Worried about finding someone your age? Don't sweat it. Dating's like a car boot sale – there's something for everyone, and sometimes the best finds aren't the ones you were originally looking for.

And the whole virgin thing – think of it as a bonus level in a video game that you've yet to unlock. It's not a race, is it? No one gets an award for finishing first. It's about the experience, the laughs, and finding the right player two for your co-op mode.

So, should you keep aiming for women your age? Of course, mate! It's like going to a buffet – just because you haven't tried the sushi yet doesn't mean you won't love it when you do.

Dating can be as nerve-wracking as singing karaoke for the first time – you think everyone's watching, but they're all too busy worrying about their own performance. Just jump in, sing your heart out, and have a blast.

Remember, being a virgin at 25 is like having a secret superpower – when the time's right, you'll reveal it to someone special, and they'll be chuffed to bits. Until then, keep your spirits up, your chin high, and your humor ready. Your debut is going to be epic – like the season finale of your favorite show. Good luck, bruv!

[Gobzapper]

I just fear women my age will think I’m not good enough for them

[robhazelnut]

I lost mine when I was within a year of your age. It only resulted in one day of increased vigor and confidence (not intelligence). The price was knowing that's all she wanted from me, and years of more intense negative emotion. The motivation was in identifying with the body, seeing myself as the lowest of the low if I didn't have sex, because that's what mammals have evolved to do. Humans can transcend instinct. If you choose to have sex but want to not go through what I went through, it'd be reasonable to first find a girl who simply wants your company, then see about sex. Keeping her interest without cruelly baiting her is a real victory. Stay honest and straightforward with non-threatening people. Virginity is only a failure if you call it one for yourself.

[robhazelnut]

Addendum: Only go for those you're interested in. Otherwise, it'll fall apart with who knows what collateral damage.

[robhazelnut]

Addendum 2 for clarity: She and I didn't play any tricks on one another and lived in different cities. May this opinion-chain have been no bother. Good luck out there.

[AutumnSerenity]

Of course. You may meet someone at the gym, university, work (although I don’t recommend work but it happens since you spend most of your time there). Go to a concert, travel. She’s out there and doesn’t know you exist. Just gotta find her.

[Nikki1989]

It is never too late, but 25 is pushing it.

[Gobzapper]

Not exactly what I was on about. I was moreso wondering if I still have a shot with women MY age, or if I should go much older

[AaronKrieger]

If you find someone who you have chemistry with and they want a relationship with you - they'll probably be understanding.

If it's a deal breaker for them, then it just means you're incompatible with them like any other kind of deal breaker someone can have, which is fine. It's okay if it doesn't work out.

All that matters is that you put yourself out there and tried.

[OddBeMe]

Can you still? Do you think you have to advertise it?

I mean gals can prob tell. Although every couples first time is bad-ish. Later first episodes have been better. But you’re obsessing over virginity instead of meeting people. Just look for a relationship.

Sex is incidental.

[strateguy632]

very likely you can but not likely she virgin by 24 age.

[Gobzapper]

Don’t care. I’d prefer she not be as long as there are no STDs

[Billlewis]

Just keep an open mind and see what comes your way.

[Gobzapper]

Not sure why, but I’d rather find someone at least 5 years within my age

[Billlewis]

That sounds like a plan. I just started following you, and I'd like to invite you to follow me as well if you want.

[JacobJordan]

I was older and still found someone near my age there are women who have that level of self respect. You may need to seek outside the US though

[SotiCoto]

Unlikely.

Possible, but unlikely.

[Gobzapper]

Why is it unlikely?

[SotiCoto]

Spirit of the times. There are strong cultural taboos against male virgins in recent years... much as there are against female non-virgins. Both are absurd.

[Sonorous]

I say just go with the flow dawg

[HawkPerception]

I don't see why not

[Gobzapper]

Someone told me women my age wouldn’t want someone like me

[HawkPerception]

The truth is, MOST women especially around the age of 25+ like men that are confident and converse well, financially stable and able to take them feel taken care of, and usually dominant and had more sexual experience than themselves. They don't like the idea of teaching a guy the ropes.

But there are girls out there (although much more uncommon) that would take you as you are and would actually be attracted to the fact that you're still a virgin and lacking confidence. There are tons of girls in the world. There's many that would take you as you are. You just have to find them.

[Gobzapper]

Truth is, I lost my mind for 3 years and went insane. But I’m back now and am ready to try life again.

Will most women my age STILL not want me?

[Hotboy_booblover]

Virgin from front or back?

[Anonymous]

I believe so