I haven’t dated since 2020 I met this guy 3 weeks ago and decided to give him a chance. we texted on instagram for the first 2 weeks he would only respond once a day he asked for my number and told me he don’t be on instagram a lot. I gave him my number our conversation was going well that day and then he just stop texting me for 3 days. When he did text me he text me from a different number and told me he has 2 phones and thought he was texting me on his main phone and was waiting for me to respond to his message. It didn’t really make sense to me but I didn’t question him and I just brushed it off and laughed about it later on that day he text me again i decided to wait until the next day to respond because I didn’t want to keep responding to him so fast when he has been taking a day or 2 to respond to me. when I text him the next morning i received a text saying message blocking is active but he has not unfollowed me on social media why would he just randomly block me was he never really interested in me?
A guy I hav been talking to for 3 weeks randomly blocked me?
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Damn, that is super weird and suspicious. A few things could be going on here:
- He may have lost interest and is pulling a lame move by blocking instead of just saying so. total lame move.
- He could have a girlfriend/wife he didn't mention and got caught texting you so blocked your number real quick. shady.
- Possibly got scared off when you didn't respond right away like he expected. some dudes can't handle a girl playing it cool tho.
- Could be messing with multiple girls and you weren't giving in to him as easily so he dropped you for someone else. player vibes.
Honestly I wouldn't lose any sleep over this clown. Who knows what his deal is but blocking out of nowhere is a major red flag. Don't bother trying to contact him - he for sure wasn't that into you if he'll pull stuff like that. His loss! You can do way better than some guy who plays immature games like this. Just forget about him and keep it pushing, don't waste your time stressin over some weirdo.
Let me see slow to respond and starts texting you on another number then shortly blocks you...
Sounds like texting from the second number was an accident, his wife, girlfriend etc found this out and got him to block your number and also found out about his cheat phone/SIM. His slow responses where probably him picking and choosing when he could reply/swap the SIM.
I'd say you probably dodged a bullet there.
Texting and Instagram is not communicating. Try again.