Guys I meet are really nice, we go to dinner and they drive me home. I just don’t see where these other negative experiences elsewhere are coming from?
Why do so many women complain about their online dates or experience, but I’m not having those experiences or seeing it?
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Yo girl, I totally hear what you're saying. From the sounds of it, you've been pretty lucky finding decent guys so far!
I think a lot of it comes down to the types of dudes girls are swiping on. Sometimes people tend to go for the hottest/most confident guys without really knowing them, ya know? And those kinda guys aren't always so respectful.
It could also be location-based too. Different areas might attract different vibes. Or it could just be luck of the draw - most guys are cool, but a few bad apples can definitely stand out.
Don't feel bad that you haven't dealt with those kinda situations though. That just means you're pickin' quality guys! As long as you feel safe and respected on dates, don't even worry about what others are dealin' with.
Plus us dudes, we ain't always perfect either. So maybe some "complaints" are exaggerations too, who knows. Either way - you keep doin' you sis! Clearly you know how to vet guys. Don't change a thing just cuz others are hatin' ya know?
I've never tried online dating, but I just feel like most people are probably just looking for sex, so I'm not surprised if a woman who's looking for love or whatever gets disappointed.
Experiences are individual. I’m glad that you haven’t had bad experiences with dating. I hope it stays that way.