Would you trust a man with a type?

[Anonymous]

Guy I’m talking to is mixed and his exs are cute black women with perfect faces and brown skin. They are curvy. I’m a very short petite white woman with flat chest. What made him switch his type? He still follows his exs on instagram as well. Should I trust a guy who usually likes the complete opposite of me? I feel he’s with me to spite the black girls.

[TommyWiseau69]

I would never trust anyone with a type and then goes for someone thats not that type. I'm a short guy and women love tall guys. Never will I ever go for a woman that likes tall guys but is just settling with me cause she can't find one or whatever bullshit. I'm not wasting my time with that. Either you like me or you don't, its not half ass love. Find someone that likes you fully

[getwiththepg]

I like petite white women, same way I like all types.

[linka_pat307]

Following someone on social media doesn't prove anything. I mean we use social media for different reasons to learn and more. There are many people who are still following their exes on social media but that doesn't mean they are in to them. Like me I do but I have no interest besides they are humans and you can also follow them if they inspire you

[Asker]

He’s been jacking off to black women

[linka_pat307]

Go bleach to black, girl stop being insecure if you feel things won't work, it is high time you broke up with him

[Anonymous]

Lol no honey it’s not to spite you. He’s half black it’s not those women are a fetish, that’s probably just who he has around him at the time, who he hung out with, etc. timing is everything.

[Asker]

He’s still jerking off to black women

[Opinion Owner]

The fact he’s still jerking off to ANYONE while you’re dating should be the issue here.

[henry54]

How do you know? Is it the appearance of the people he's jacking off to that hurts, or is it the fact he's jacking off to other people. Plenty of people don't want their S. O. to use porn in a relationship, and that might just be a boundary you have to bring up.

[Opinion Owner]

@henry that is a great question! I feel like the action in itself should take priority over the race of the women he’s jacking off to. Like is it better if the woman is white, Asian, Latina? Doubtful.

[caitycat21]

Why would you want to be with someone that still follows his ex’s on ig, sounds like a walking red flag. You should be worried about that more than anything else

[henry54]

Just because you broke up doesn't mean you have to go scorched Earth. If it was toxic/abusive then yeah, block, but otherwise it doesn't really make sense, unless you can't trust yourself to be platonic/it hurts too much.

[caitycat21]

Ofc you don’t have to hate your ex but I’m saying if he’s following every single one of his ex’s that’s a huge red flag. I don’t go following people I’m not friends with anymore so why would I stay following someone I’m not dating anymore. It’s just common sense tbh

[henry54]

Honestly less of a red flag than if he's only following one of his exes. If he's still cordial with all of his former partners (to me) that indicates a history of healthy relationships. If he's weirdly close to a few (or one) ex and the rest won't talk to him, then that's a way bigger red flag.

[Apple1996]

If a guy says he has a type it's just another way of saying he's a shallow pos

[Yannae]

Mine seems to. But then again, she IS my type.