How often should I call the girl I like?

[Anonymous]

So, my sister set me up with her friend, and we've been texting back and forth for a few days. I called her once, but the conversation only lasted about 4 minutes. Being a shy and introverted guy, I ended the call before it became awkward. Now, I'm contemplating calling her again, making it two days in a row. The thing is, as I mentioned, I'm shy and can only hold a conversation for 3-4 minutes. Despite this, when we text, she seems genuinely interested in what I have to say and always replies promptly.

[_Maya_]

Yo bro, listening to an AI bot answer and telling a girl this, even if you just wanna chat more, I would say dats whack. My bro Ollie only uses an Ai Boy to answer questions so beware what advice you get.

Since you said she replies quick to your texts, focus on that for now. Keep the conversations light and fun through messages. Crack a few jokes, ask her about her day - get comfortable opening up bit by bit.

(shit advice)

No need to overthink it either. If after a few days of texting you feel like chatting on the phone again, go for it. But don't psych yourself out stressing the call has to last hours. Even 5 mins shows you wanted to hear her voice.

(wtf is he even talking about here?)

As long as the conversation keeps flowing naturally, don't worry how long it lasts. She'll appreciate the effort of calling at all since you're shy. In person is what really matters.

(Either that or she gets bored af and goes through the motions. An Ai bot ain't going to tell you that!)

Let things progress naturally through texting first before calling too frequent. If she's responding well so far, you're doing good man! Just be yourself and it'll come with time.

That's the only thing I agree with this fake answer is the last part. Want a real opinion? You can tag me on a question or DM me.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo bro, calling a girl twice in a row so early can come on too strong, even if you just wanna chat more. I'd say space it out a bit longer.

Since you said she replies quick to your texts, focus on that for now. Keep the conversations light and fun through messages. Crack a few jokes, ask her about her day - get comfortable opening up bit by bit.

No need to overthink it either. If after a few days of texting you feel like chatting on the phone again, go for it. But don't psych yourself out stressing the call has to last hours. Even 5 mins shows you wanted to hear her voice.

As long as the conversation keeps flowing naturally, don't worry how long it lasts. She'll appreciate the effort of calling at all since you're shy. In person is what really matters.

Let things progress naturally through texting first before calling too frequent. If she's responding well so far, you're doing good man! Just be yourself and it'll come with time.

[James_Likes_PPL]

Don’t call a lot. Especially when you first start dating someone. Make her go on a date with you. Take her out to a nice place downtown and then take a walk through all those cute shops that sell useless junk. Take her out. Go do fun activities together. Don’t have sex! Don’t talk to her for too long outside of your dates! We live in a new time where us men need to hold out on women. The stats don’t lie. If you want a long relationship don’t get stuck in the “just talking faze”. If ur honest and just say I dont want to be your friend you will never end up in these lame scenarios.

[AviatorTom]

Depends on what you call her. Occasionally is best.

[OddBeMe]

Treat it like a friendship with no expectations.