Does my boyfriend have a hickey? (Pic) ?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I been bad lately we been having some problems in our relationship and this doesn’t make it any better.

we decided to hang out this weekend even tho last week we had a big argument. We booked a hotel and not even 20 mins in we were arguing. Apparently he been scratching his neck and said he has a “ rash “ I don’t remember seeing him scratch his neck but I told him that doesn’t look like a hickey and that scratching is not going make those marks.

Maybe I’m over thinking or making it worse but I keep telling him that looks like a hickey. He tells me Is not and now he mad and we both mad.

[wysiwyg2525]

That is obviously a rash. Hiked ar more like a bruise due to blood vessel breaking and forming a clot. It's not cool to accuse him of something he did not do. This will push him away. It a pet pece. How about you put him some OTC hydroxyzine cream on it and watch it disappear in 1-2 days.

FYI you wouldn't like it if he accused you if the rolls were reversed. How about you start trust vs. Not trusting. This is how women become single and stay single.
Guys don't like to be accused of something the did not do. He said he was at a family event. You don't have to be mad at him if he was with family. I hope your not the clingy type of girl and is jealous because he didn't invite you...

[Asker]

12 years of relationship and he didn’t invite me hnn

[wysiwyg2525]

Well, you left out the important stuff when you post a message like this. Now you say 12 years and he hasn't invited you. Hmmm🤔🤔🤔 I doubt that he hasn't invited you to his family gatherings in 12 years. It looks like you just want to play victim, or you're just being a **"FRIEND/ROOMMATE friends with benefits"**

That being said, then you should end your relationship if you're no longer happy being in an friends with benefits. It sounds to me like you're looking for things to break it off. Do it. It's no longer a relationship of your setting and allowing the guy to control you. You will be happier without him than just being dragged along for the ride.

Sometimes, a relationship doesn't work out. Don't be that girl with no self-respect and allow things to happen. These are not good qualities in a woman, and other guys would find this very unattractive. You can do better this and you already you it. You're just looking for a reason, too. Now you got it. What's your next step?

[Danny_dan92]

Looks like the kind of mark my ex would give me when she’d bite my neck and shoulders.




BUT I’m not going to say for certain that’s what he has, what I will say is it looks similar

[Asker]

Last night he had a family event. I don’t know what else he did but that does look like a bite or something.

[Danny_dan92]

It does yes

[jaskin777]

No it looks more like a rash tbh
Because hockey's are more of a blueish color ( like a bruise)

[jaskin777]

Typo hickey

[Anonymous]

Possibly, but it could just as easily be from scratching or a rash of some sort.

[ChicoFromThe305]

And what did he tell you?

[Asker]

He obviously said Is not. I just kept telling him it looks like a hickey. He told me he got that bc he started to feel itchy n started scratching until he saw himself in mirror n saw that..

[ChicoFromThe305]

That seeing himself in the mirror sounds suspicious, he could've said he scratched himself and end it there but if he mentioned seeing in the mirror and seeing the spot, sounds suspicious like he's trying to assure to you that it's the scratching that made the spot when it wasn't, let's not forget they don't look like scratches, scratches are usually sharp cuttings that's open the flesh or skin, that looks like markings made from pressure on the skin, at they very least a blunt object, point is that's not fingernail damage.

[Asker]

He started scratching when we got to the hotel and after a while he went to the bathroom and told me to look and I said that don’t look like a hickey and he said he randomly started to feel itchy like allergies and that it got like that from scratching. I don't know what to think.

[Awantika03]

It looks rash

[Asker]

What kind

[Awantika03]

Like allergic