Should you be honest if your girlfriend asks you if another lady is attractive?

[Anonymous]

She asked me if I thought another lady at work was attractive and I said yes, I didn't know how else to answer but truthfully.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I always tell my wife the truth in those cases but we openly share almost everything. Actually my friends and family used to scold us saying things like, "A husband shouldn't share that with his wife! A wife should share that with her husband!" Yet we're an unusual case.

I think it helped because we were close friends first for a year before we started dating, so we started off as friends sharing everything including other people we found attractive. That just continued into the process of dating and after marriage.

She'll tell me if she finds a man very charming and handsome and I'll tell her if I find a woman very charming and beautiful.

We even cross over like I'll tell my wife, "Wasn't that guy we met so handsome and charming? It's amazing that he doesn't have a girlfriend. Maybe we can match him with one of our single female friends." Then she might agree with me or say, "Hmm, I don't really think so," and that can invite an interesting discussion.

[boggboss]

Truly depends on how insecure or not your partner is and how she will take it if u know your partner is insecure about her looks or is scared u will leave her for a better looking women I wouldn't be willing to tell her no then again I probobly wouldn't date someone who was like that as it would be tiring

[jennifer_bloom]

Appearance is a factor for many but it should not be your main motivator when choosing somebody, make it clear some things are more important to you than looks and that might calm her down about it.

[Asker]

I'm not sure if she was asking because she's worried, or asking just because she thought so.

[Paris13]

You were Honest and Now---In A Heap of Deep Trouble. lolxx

[Asker]

Oh no. lol

[Paris13]

lol We Girls Hate a Lie But Yet-----xx

[Paris13]

The Truth May Kill Some, hun. And The Replyer. xx

[Asker]

Welp, I'm officially turning up the romance for Valentine's Day. lol

[Paris13]

lol!!! A Dozen Roses and a Huge Care Bear if You Dare. xxoo

[Paris13]

Thanks, Gag. xxoo

[BoopBoopBeep]

Yep. I always answer that truthfully. If she can't take the answer she shouldn't ask the question.

[jahaims]

Duh. If she isn't retarded she knows she isn't the most attractive human alive just like you know you aren't.

[zagor]

Yes, but definitely don't add "I wished you looked like that".

[kingmaker21]

Girl don't like honest answer specially when it's come to other women 😂

[Anonymous]

Yes. Women need to learn to not ask questions they don't want honest answers to.

[Elena_Stewart]

It depends. But why would she ask you this?