My father's widow comes from a Middle-Eastern country, but she doesn't want to be associated with it not even by mistake.
From the little she says about it she hated her childhood there, which grew into a general distaste for her own people and especially the most prevalent religion there - she even pretends to not know the language and cut off her family long ago, even changed her birth name to a "westernized" version.
She looks somewhat Asian and she said more than once that she prefers being mistaken for a Chinese than from her native country.
The only thing she doesn't hate from her background are the sweets she makes and brings to me and my wife in the weekend, I assume they were probably the only sweet thing in her childhood.
I had always believed that my father made her to "adapt" go our country and scrap her culture, turned out he didn't care much while she abandoned it on her own.