I had a disagreement with my boyfriend and there was no hectic fight or anything but he's not spesking to me. No whatsapps, nothing?

[Dee-girl]

Should I wait a while longer for him to cool off and contact me himself? I don't mind breaking the silence but don't want to set a pattern where he thinks he can do this everytime. How long should I wait?

[TrueConfection]

He'll do it again and again. Find someone else who is willing to communicate. I am telling you this out of experience. My husband was this guy and I waited for things to cool down and approach him. It's been over 20 years and we are still on the same rollercoaster of silent treatments everytime he's offended by something and most times I don't even know what it's about. I have learned to enjoy the quiet, but it's irritating to deal with that level of emotional immaturity.

Get out now before you're fully committed and find someone with emotional intelligence.

[boggboss]

Truly it's for u 2 decide a will say thr silent treatment is shitty way to deal with a argument

[tzdc21]

I'd stop waiting now and ask if you can talk with him. If he says no, give him more time.

[Anonymous]

Break the ice and tell him that neither of you benefit from silent treatments so how about you two make sure to never have them?