A bit of context, reconnected with this girl I met 4 years ago. Things wouldn’t had worked out back then bc of timing. Fast forward now, we reconnected on Hinge texted for a few days, had good consistent conversations, she said she’s been looking for a long term relationship for a while, asked her on a date to go bowling, she agreed, then after asking her on it her texting went down to only once or twice a day which would mostly be in the morning
On Wednesday, I gave her the time, day, and place which was suppose to be on Sunday. She didn’t respond so I sent a question mark on Thursday…no response. Then I sent one more text on Friday…no response.
On Saturday, she sent me the first text above. I responded with the same time, day, and place. Then on Sunday, the day of the date, she flaked and said something popped up and we’ll have to reschedule.
She’s in college and is going on spring break this whole week.
What Girls Said
Nope she is not interested in meeting. If a girl is interested then she instantly responds
Your number 10 on her favorite hinge matches... So ignored till she feels like it and her other dates don't work.
We never don't respond to guys we really like. Just to those whose attention we want.
Yeah I’m not tripping about it that much. If she doesn’t reschedule for sometime this week bc ik she’s on spring break, then we’re done speaking. To me, she sounds honest through text bc she kept apologizing but I only take that with a grain of salt bc ik how easy it is to manipulate through text
If you want to keep wasting your time, keep on doing what you are doing.