Agree or Disagree: Average men are not desired by women that are average?

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Women have openly stated they would rather be in a rotation of a man of high value then to get with a man who is average like themselves.

worldscolide · Accepted Answer

If you go by stats on dating sites.. Also the average woman sees her self as a 10, she feels like she deserves a 10, when she is a 3 to 5 at best.

genericname85 · Accepted Answer

the women that disagree are not aware that they are into above average men themself xD

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

Really? I’m a woman and I’ve never stated that 🤔🤷‍♀️ what women have stated that… You getting your facts about women from the bs people say on the internet again?😂

Avicenna · Answer

An "average" woman would have to be pretty clueless to think she's going to get anything but hookups from these "high-value guys". And there are some women who greatly overestimate what they're going to get in a guy. But most know their optimal guy isn't going to be walking through the door, although a good number of this group would drop an "average" guy if something better comes along.

But, at the end of the day, is "average" so bad, really?

Anonymous · Answer

Here's to asking alpha and beta male questions in 2050

normalice · Answer

The fact that there are almost 7 billion people renders your question statistically impossible.

Throughout human history the thing that broadens women's standards, above all, is access to resources. If the only way to get food is to fight tigers for it, women will unanimously prefer men who can fight a tiger. But if no one has to worry about food (and other resources) at all, women will diffuse towards more abstract and even contradictory standards that thus have a greater chance of valuing that which some men assume to be a source of insecurity.

Cheapskate · Answer

When I'm feeling pessimistic, I feel like this is true. I feel like it is 100% true on dating apps. Crazy hypergamy there. But I asked the AI chatbots about this, and it may sound woke, but they say it's more about being yourself and connecting genuinely with others than about how you look or what you earn. And sometimes I do see guys where I feel like they have pulled way out of their league. So yeah, I think there is some truth to the idea that you should dare to be yourself and try to talk to women without trying to instantly get in their pants. And if you hit it off, it may happen naturally. But the key is to be yourself. If you are playing a role or trying to be alpha or whatever, the connection probably won't develop and she won't feel the spark.

CalmUntilAbused · Answer

I agree with the hypothesis in the topic, but not with the context added. Women tend to put a lot of effort into not admitting this tendency. That would contradict the popular belief stating all women are basically innocent angels, full of love and compassion. Though... I guess there's nothing inherently wrong or evil with what the hypothesis describes. What is there to be "desired" in an average man? What is there to be "desired" in an average person, for the sake of it? I mean... The "girl next door" might be loveable, but would she spark the lust in an average man? Now... Not to say that lust can be the basis of any healthy relationship, because it's not, but it's no wonder than the "average" is not "desired". It can be liked, it can be loved, but it can hardly be "desired" in the sense of a primal, animalistic lust.

tremendousfern · Answer

100% agree. Ask a woman what she thinks is the "average" man she should be able to pull based on her criteria and she'll describe someone who is in the top 80%+ of all men in height, income, looks, social influence, etc. Women have such a fantastically inflated sense of what average is that it's hilarious.

Curmudgeon · Answer

Bingo. The existence of this question, posted just before yours, is proof:

patrick994 · Answer

Unfortunately nowadays for the average man, courtship is becoming increasingly difficult, social media has given women access to a vast audience of men willing to inzerbin for them, this only fuels a vicious circle: women's egos rise and consequently so do their demands.

Of course, as you well know, women by biological nature will always tend to choose the man with above-average physical, social and economic characteristics, this instinct is already intrinsic in women, the current context only accentuates it.

Unluckly avarage man can have girls only if they are famous, rich with good body.

dolemite58 · Answer

Average girls chase above average guys that are out of their league when they’re young and hot but once the big 3 0 hits most end up settling for someone average cuz those out of their league guys can do better than them and would never commit to them.

Dinklex3 · Answer

You see regular men with regular women all the time when you go outside. Yet online men complain and claim we only want 6ft rich models. Voted disagree.

Flatmanlewis · Answer

I think generalizations are always flawed so on its surface I’d disagree. However, I don’t think this is true on any level. Most of my wife’s gal pals, and the girls I know at work, seem to refer to their celebrity crushes as not the kind of man they would marry, but rather just fantasize about. It seems an average man (physically) with an exceptional personality and moral compass is what they all describe as their target. Of course, this is just my small social circle but it’s not a small one.

desidoll · Answer

I mean I don’t like this gender picking thing because I have seen both men and women do the same shit. Nobody is innocent when it comes to being shallow. I know some men who are willing to stay single forever and go for hookers because they can’t get “Stacy” and women who have to settle with whatever comes to them because they can’t get “Chad”

Nikki1989 · Answer

For someone calling themselves a coach, you sure have a lot to learn.

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

Considering the average man wants a mother more than a wife, that’s accurate. Average men aren’t good enough anymore

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

I don't care if i'm desired or not, let them ask themselves first if they are desired or not 🤣🤣

I am myself, not going to change for anyone, i'll only change for the better, if they like me, they are welcomed and if they don't, than i wish them luck!

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think ANYONE desires anybody average, male or female. But women general have the LUXURY of waiting for a more desirable man than a guy does for a more desirable woman.

lightbulb27 · Answer

false, women will take what they cna get. they might swing for the moon based upon their self image. they will take best they can get that they feel loved... e. g. they have lot of control.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I'm desired by average women as long as they are desired by me.

abc3643 · Answer

Your statement (and its veracity) is no different from this one: "Average women are not desired by men that are average."

Joshydavid25 · Answer

It seems that way, and it's easy to just give in and say "yeah, women don't give a damn about average men".. But IRL, plenty are still fine with the average guy..

Chthou95 · Answer

True. And it's social media made the average man invisible to the average woman

NathanDavis · Answer

some women have stated*

PrettyCrumblBb · Answer

Coach please go outside and look at all the average couples holding hands. 😂

LadyLa820 · Answer

Desire is in the eye of the beholder.

Anonymous · Answer

lot of famous average looking guys with hot wives. Fame is important

msc545 · Answer

Average men are desired by nobody.

laly520 · Answer

some women stated u mean

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

The fuck is average?

BarryLiverstone · Answer

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